I think the answer is best found in the 2nd movie of the matrix. This is where Neo is talking to the oracle and says how can he make a choice if she
already knows what is going to happen. And she replies - because you didn't come here to make the choice, you already made it. You are here to
understand why you made the choice.
I think both are correct. But it is your free will that leads to your destiny. The point isn't to get to your destiny, it's the journey and
understanding that comes along the way that is the point.
And of course, the path that leads to there is also up to chance. If you want to go check your mail, the quickest path is to go straight to it.
But you can still stop and smell the flowers, pet the dog and so on and still make it to the mailbox - your destination.
[edit on 5-1-2009 by badmedia]


thats our problem shall we go BIG or go small? what one makes more sens to us? 

