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'You loser!" screamed Katie, aiming a vase at her husband. "You've destroyed my life,'' she continued, hurling it. "Just look at my hair, look at my nails! You loser, you jerk, you nobody."
Katie's husband, Jack, whose property portfolio disintegrated in the financial crash, had just told his wife that she would have to cut back on her thrice-weekly visits to Nicky Clarke, the nail salon in Harvey Nichols, and the oxygen facials, chemical peels and seaweed wraps at Space NK.
Not only that, but they no longer had the money to pay for an army of bullied Eastern Europeans to wait on her hand and foot.
Another case is Sasha who, for the past few months, had been gloating about the £3.4 million chalet in Verbier her husband was about to exchange on, how she'd managed to hire a high-society interior decorator to do it up for a song (''more an anthem, actually", she'd giggled) and how much she was looking forward to a white, snowy Christmas there.
At the last minute, Husband pulled out of the deal. Never mind that he had lost his lucrative job in the City, she felt he had deliberately traumatised her and is suing him for divorce on the grounds of mental cruelty. '
'She's got the personality of an overindulged infant,'' he sighed, ''a spoilt brat who starts screaming the moment a toy is taken away.''
Originally posted by HunkaHunka
You REALLY need to read this entire article.
[edit on 31-12-2008 by HunkaHunka]
At the last minute, Husband pulled out of the deal. Never mind that he had lost his lucrative job in the City, she felt he had deliberately traumatised her and is suing him for divorce on the grounds of mental cruelty. '
'She's got the personality of an overindulged infant,'' he sighed, ''a spoilt brat who starts screaming the moment a toy is taken away.''
Originally posted by nixie_nox
There are ugly people of both genders.
Is it really that she can't get her hair and nails done? Or is that she scared that their future may go down the sewer?
So instead of always looking at the obvious as the problem, look at the root of it and see the real problem. That this person is scared to death.
Poeple don't always know how to express themselves. And everyone always assumes everyone knows how. She may not even know what she is afraid of, it just manifests itself as nails and hair.
These men can't put all responsibility on the women. They did indulge them after all.
if these men didn't intned on creating spoiled brats, then maybe they should not of indulged their eveyr whim. And expect people to change on a dime.
And not to mention, I would like to know how many of these women were married for looks, connections, or to be trophy wives. I hardly doubt the using is only going one way.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
Not to be harsh but what is your point?
There are ugly people of both genders.
Things like this are usually a symptom, not a problem. Is it really that she can't get her hair and nails done? Or is that she scared that their future may go down the sewer?
People react strangely to stress. They don't like change. And her life is changing obviously.
So instead of always looking at the obvious as the problem, look at the root of it and see the real problem. That this person is scared to death.
Poeple don't always know how to express themselves. And everyone always assumes everyone knows how. She may not even know what she is afraid of, it just manifests itself as nails and hair.
After nails and hair, comes trips, cars, clothes. After that comes house and everything else.
These men can't put all responsibility on the women. They did indulge them after all.
If I gave my toddler a cookie everyday, and then after a few years I said: no more cookies, what do you think it going to happen?
if these men didn't intned on creating spoiled brats, then maybe they should not of indulged their eveyr whim. And expect people to change on a dime.
And not to mention, I would like to know how many of these women were married for looks, connections, or to be trophy wives. I hardly doubt the using is only going one way.
Originally posted by NephraTari
Ok here's the thing. He deserved what he got .. and you want to know why?
You are supposed to marry someone because you are in love with each other and cannot stand to think of your life without them in it.. for better or worse.
He obviously married her because she was beautiful but its very obvious had nothing of value on the inside. There was never any real love there but he married her anyway because he wanted a pretty face to look at in bed and at his side to make people jealous.
You get what you pay for and he paid for that one.
Moral of the story.. Marriage is about love not lust and what looks good.
Originally posted by justgeneric
In all seriousness though - women do have a totally different way of plotting events, consequences, reactions and logical situations.
There are beautiful women with something below the surface. Just because a woman is beautiful does not make her toxic, what I am saying is men that marry the toxic women know what she is from the start and they look past the character flaws because of the beauty. You married your wife for more than just her looks right? because she has more going for her than just that.. when a man marries a woman like the one in that story.. its obvious she has no other redeeming traits .. he married her based on looks alone.. do you not see what I am saying?
Originally posted by HunkaHunka
Originally posted by NephraTari
Ok here's the thing. He deserved what he got .. and you want to know why?
You are supposed to marry someone because you are in love with each other and cannot stand to think of your life without them in it.. for better or worse.
He obviously married her because she was beautiful but its very obvious had nothing of value on the inside. There was never any real love there but he married her anyway because he wanted a pretty face to look at in bed and at his side to make people jealous.
You get what you pay for and he paid for that one.
Moral of the story.. Marriage is about love not lust and what looks good.
Again, My wife is beautiful and I spoil her, yet she still doesn't act anything like this. She is the first to want to help or sacrifice.
This is not the guys fault. Why don't you feel these women are just broken?
Originally posted by schrodingers dog
Since you're all going around in circles let me reveal to you the essential wisdom:
Diamonds are the Lubricant of Love!