posted on Dec, 29 2008 @ 10:01 AM
reply to post by TheRandom1
You know people tend to serial date. Even if they TRY to pick someone who they think is better or different, somewhere down in their subconcious, they
pick up on cues and end up with the same bread and butter.
The trick is to date people who you normally wouldn't look at.
The successful dating sites have picked up on this. If someone has had several failed attempts, they will scramble and hook them up with someone
We watch who our parents, friends, and especially siblings pick, and that sets the standard, and we follow the pattern, not really knowing if it is
good for us or not.
Everyone has a few bad apples. But the human race would cease to exist if we gave up trying after a few bad deals.
And I do not mean this in an attacking manor: but if you are calling people worthless and retards, and berating all their actions, what kind of person
do you think you are going to attract?
A message board is one thing, but if you treat people like this in real life, most likely you are only going to date people with no self esteem and no
concept of how a relationship works. And those people will continue to jump from one bad relationship to the next, because they are looking for love
in teh wrong way. They feel bad, so they find people who treat them bad.
[edit on 29-12-2008 by nixie_nox]