posted on Jan, 9 2009 @ 09:31 AM
If everyone involved is happy...then way to go...
Don't let anyone else define what love or a relationship is "supposed" to be for you....
However, also don't be fooled that one person in this arrangement may only be "putting up" with the situation...but really wants something
different... Not saying it's true...I know a couple other arrangements such as yours, that seem to work fine...just don't be blind to the
possibility...
One particular threesome (two guys and a gal), have been together for about 8 years, and have two children amongst them (that all three raise
together). They're all Wiccan, so that's a bit more accepted in such circles (pardon the pun)...but seems to work for them.
Be young, have fun...plenty of time to see what works, doesn't work for you.
My wife has played for both teams in the past. She's very happy with me (and enjoys teasing me with the idea of a third player (gal, as I'm straight
as an arrow) every now and then...even though I don't think she'd be cool afterwards...), so I've got some idea of the feelings involved...
That situation has actually come close to happening a few times...but when it did...I could get a feel for how she was going to react (even if her
initiation), and events would then conspire to thwart it anyhow...and luckily, without an argument or bit to-do... I've had the 3-way thing in the
past, not often, but it was just for fun then, and prior to marriage...so the idea if fun...but not at the expense of my marriage. If it works for you
though, and those involved, then to heck with what others think....you're all responsible for your own happiness.
[edit on 9-1-2009 by Gazrok]