I could care less why you feel you are gay, and I'm baffled why you are curious why I am not gay. Why do you care?

I've always been attracted to the same sex.Simple answer.lol.

Actually it was all well and good in ancient Greece too. In fact in some places it was a large part of raising strong men from adolescent boys.

Well the studies say otherwise. Statistically "strait" homophobic males will physiologically respond to gay porn whereas those who weren't homophobic simply didn't respond to the stimuli.
It's this way for like almost 9/10 of homophobes, studies suggest.

This one kind of annoys me. It's imaginary. If you're in a room of strangers and half of them happened to be gay (unless they are really camp and effeminate) you're not going to be able to tell who's what. Since coming out to ma friends about a month ago, nothing has changed, not a thing (in fact I'm the only one who has changed).

I'd say from about the of 11,when I became sexually awakened,I've always been attracted to the same sex.

Curiosity,more than society,did make me experiment with boys.And I can honestly say I never ever enjoyed it.And believe me,I experimented a lot.lol.

I was 13 or 14 when I first kissed a girl properly and it felt so right.I kissed a cpl of boys after that,just to see,but the only thing i felt was an icky feeling in my stomach.

Of course,it wasn't just the physical aspect that attracted me to girls.I loved the whole idea of romance and relationships,and still do.I never fantasized about having that with a boy,it was always with a girl.In fact,i never fantasized about boys full stop.As i said,it was just curiosity.

I dont know about that. It was probably the military training that took place from the age of 7.

In classical antiquity, writers such as Herodotus,[1] Plato,[2] Xenophon,[3] Athenaeus[4] and many others explored aspects of same-sex love in ancient Greece. The most widespread and socially significant form of close same-sex sexual relations in ancient Greece was between adult men and adolescent boys, known as pederasty.

oh really? where is your evidence of this? This is the type of thing that irks me about gays. all of a sudden THEY can determine anyone else's sexuality as well as their own whereas, in my opinion, they are the most confused of the lot.

he two groups exhibited similar arousal when they viewed 4 minute samples taken from one heterosexual and one lesbian movie. But they responded differently to the male homosexual clip:
The researchers concluded that these data are consistent with the belief that most homophobic men have repressed homosexual desires. An alternative, but much less likely, explanation is that the homophobic men's erections were caused by anxiety during the experiment.

In the above post you seem to indicate that 9/10 of homophobes are gay, but here your saying that you cant tell that?

Most people relate to each other by things they have in common. Since homosexuals are a minority they are typically the oddballs. This is what creates the awkward situation im talking about.

Of course,it wasn't just the physical aspect that attracted me to girls.I loved the whole idea of romance and relationships,and still do.

Well please prove me wrong, if someone can already be born homosexual then they can also be born with bestiality and necrophilia preferences. How is homosexuality any different?

So what gender are you? If you’re a boy then your first sexual experience was a girl so you do have a choice……you weren’t born gay. Your post contradicts itself. U do not have preference for girls but a girl was your first sexual awakening. So you like boys now but at first you liked girls…..