When Did You Choose To Be Straight?, page 18
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reply posted on 2-1-2009 @ 07:42 PM by Good Wolf
reply to post by DantesLost


My point is to do with the percentage.How many people are needed before something becomes the norm?

Hate to undercut your point but, dose it really need to be normal? It's natural, it's not detrimental, and even if it could be 'helped' most wouldn't want to change. I don't think we need aspire to normal.


reply to post by Anonymous ATS



She isn't strait, she's gay. I think you may have missed the point of the thread.


reply posted on 3-1-2009 @ 02:54 AM by Good Wolf
reply to post by Xtrozero



Our origins they may be but we aught to rise above such convictions, especially when they lead to the discrimination of people for reasons out of their power.


reply posted on 4-1-2009 @ 02:32 AM by Good Wolf
reply to post by Xtrozero



Culture as it stands, has a dislike of homosexuality, hence why it's such a big deal for those that are to come out. Getting rid of that is all I'm talking about.


reply posted on 22-3-2009 @ 08:24 AM by metallion
Ok. for the survey, and some of this might be long-winded.. . I'm male by the way.. (Keeps you from having to look at my profile. ).

How old were you?
5? 15? 21? 35?

Here's the story. I couldn't see until I was 4 - 1/2. Went through fourteen surgeries. The person who removed my bandages for the first time, that I could see anything, was a young red-headed female nurse, who wore, (I found out later Chanle #5). She was the first person I saw, so her sight and smell, were the first thing I can honestly say were imprinted on my memory. If I weren't hardwired to be straight before then, then I was at that time. I'd say 4-5.


Have you always just known? As far as I know, and my memory really begins from my sighted life, yes.


Were you born that way? I honestly don't know.

Did you try being gay first? No. It never occurred to me to try.

Did you experiment before making your decision? No. I always gravitated towards females, especially if they wore a certain perfume...)

When did you choose to let your subconscious,an uncontrollable part of the brain,think of the opposite sex in physical and emotional ways?

As far as I can remember, I've always enjoyed females physically, and emotionally. I like the way women look, the way they smell, tone of laugh, and the way they make me feel. I honestly can't imagine myself ever feeling any other way about them.

As far as being gay is concerned, I've got my own rules of conduct.

1. I don't care if you're gay, if you don't care if I'm straight. Your preferences are your business, and my preferences are mine. Don't tell me I'm living wrong, and I won't tell you you're living wrong.

2. God and religion has nothing to do with that choice. People should be happy, no matter who their choice of partner/lover/spouse is. I guess that falls back on #1. ).

3. Nobody objected to my marriage. Why the devil should I object to theirs?







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reply posted on 1-3-2011 @ 12:57 AM by chancemusky
reply to post by DantesLost



Straight since i was born, and so far, have not deviated. I wouldn't have any internal worry if I was gay, and even now, I don't care. Im secure enough, I can express my love to all, even my male friends.

Love is love, no matter the gender it is directed towards.

As Crowely would say, Love is the law, love under Will


reply posted on 1-3-2011 @ 01:01 AM by Dendro
reply to post by chancemusky



Dude... the thread was almost 2 years cold. What search parameters brought you to this thread?


reply posted on 1-3-2011 @ 07:22 PM by chancemusky
reply to post by Dendro



I clicked on one of the topic tabs, sorry
where does it say the date so i dont do this again?



reply posted on 1-3-2011 @ 07:28 PM by Dendro
reply to post by chancemusky



No worries, I just found it funny that this thread popped up. Sometimes old threads pop up because people have done a topic title search, so I thought that is what happened here.

Top left corner of the original post shows when the thread was created and the top left corner of the post above yours shows the last post of this thread was made March 2009.


reply posted on 1-3-2011 @ 11:08 PM by SystemResistor
reply to post by SystemResistor



In other words, I was attracted to girlsd ever since I was about 4 years old, looking up thier skirts, being shy of them etc. My point? The concept of homosexuality can never possibly exist within the innocent mind of a child.
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reply posted on 1-3-2011 @ 11:19 PM by chancemusky
reply to post by Dendro



Thanks haha Still learning to navigate through here
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