reply to post by Simplynoone
I work in a prison. I interview a few thousand every year. Most of them have siblings. I inquire always as to what the siblings are employed at doing.
Invairably in ninety percent of the responses the inmate says in some form or another "I am the black sheep of the family." See his siblings, raised
by the same parents, in the same neighborhood, in the same schools have families, jobs, houses, and are not in trouble with the law. So this crap
about role models, parents gone all of the time, peer pressure and other social worker points of view just does not hold any water. Even from the
mouths of inmates thay say "If I would have just did like my siblings, parents and other relatives told me, teachers instructed me, I would not be
here."
So the vast majority of inmates got there by going against the family morals and values, against the positive peer and positive role models and they
did this by CHOICE. So do not lay the burden of responsibility on anyones doorstep but the inmate. He/she is not there due to mommy not sitting him on
the potty correctly or any other such malarkey. He is there by choice. Just like his parents, siblings and neighborhood playmates are not in the
prison by the result of their choice.


