reply to post by cmd18B
Thanks!
All the things I mention are for experience, for what I felt when I came back from deployments and for situations that I have seen my brothers and
sister in arms when they reutrn.
Sometimes are higher ups dont understand how HARD it ease to come back from deployments and re-adjust to "normal" life whether that means going back
to the civilian lifestyle if you are guard or reserve or back on station if your are active duty.
After I came back I had such a hard time re-adjusting that it was very overwhelming, I didn't want it to go out, I didn't found no one who could
relate to what I went through, thank God, that I did have some very good friends and supervisors that understood my situation and guide me through it
but as far as professional help there was none and even if they are it gets look in sich a bad light not to mention possible loss of security
clearance and other hassels.
Marital problems are also a BIG ISSUE, I was single for my deployments but I witness guys trying to kill themselves and having a hard time coupling
with marital problems while deployed, the root of the issue being the deployment lenghts mainly.
Then you have the guys that have a hard time with the horrors of war, mainly young kids that just ended playing playstation and have to hop in a
humvee and having their buddies killed. Or those who go outside the wire and be always on edge, is not easy and some of these kids do not know how to
turn that switch off.
Sometimes I think that the DoD do not realize what their biggest asset is.