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Topic started on 1-12-2008 @ 08:22 PM by jakyll

Soldier suicides:Why so high?


www.thenewstribune.com
“Do you think that God’s going to send me to hell for killing innocent people?” former Sgt. Joshua Barber....

The suicide rate for active-duty soldiers,including members of the National Guard and the Reserves,reached an all-time high last year and could be surpassed this year,according to the Army.

If this occurs,it would top the suicide rate for U.S.civilians for the first time.
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reply posted on 1-12-2008 @ 09:47 PM by janeson
I apologise, I didn't proprerly answer your question, It's a whole mix of things.

When people leave an organization they are effectively 'displaced' for a time and because many have been involved with or witnessed such extreme violence and or suffering it becomes hard to settle back into 'normal' hum-drum society again especially when there is no one around who can relate to their experiences.

How do they describe a flashback a reliving of a moment with the exact same horror felt? Even to a loved one it can be impossible. How do they fit their family, friends or their religion into everything?

Many may also have survivor guilt they lived while a colleague died, did they do enough? If only they had done thisor that? Also that many felt there was no respect or even acknowledgment from society or it's leaders for the sacrifice they made on behalf of their countries.

There needs to be a proper 'easing out' back into civilian life (but there are never the resources to do this although there are always enough to start wars it seems) a re-learning not to be 'on-guard' all the time and an acception that the job they did was worth it and they did what they could and learn to deal with and know that any guiltfeelings are normal though there is nothing to feel guilty about and it's just the mind trying to rationalize an unrational situation like war and learn to cope with the mental and or physical injuries.

We don't give enough credit to these people, we can support them and still not support the reasons for a conflict and we don't do that I'm afraid so it's left to charities to do what governments should.

I say thank you to them and those of you out there still taking the brunt of political action.


reply posted on 1-12-2008 @ 09:59 PM by ADVISOR
This is going to be a long post (for me at least), please bare with me though, as what I am going to express is from my perspective.

Lot of us don't take the meds. What they have given me, I refuse to take. Never was one for pharms , and they don't cure a da mn thing. Some do take theirs though, probably a placebo effect, or some thing. Who knows, but I doubt the medicated army will last long. This is just a new way for the army to say they tried to give us treat ment and rehabilitation.

What I would like to know, is do these so called studies reflect the difference between combat arms vs non combat arms MOS's.

Because a few of my friends have mentioned how the "POGs"(pronouned with the o as in "oh" or Personnel Other than Grunts, as non combat MOS soldiers are called by combat soldiers.),complain about dumb stuff, like guarding the gym or filling out paper work. While we were out getting hit by IEDs and mortared or RPGed and shot at, they stayed on the FoB.
(Let me clarify this really fast. Not all soldiers are trained past basic level skill, in other words they havn't shot a rifle since basic, and don't actively go out side the wire. These are cooks, laundry service, communications aka TOC bit ches and other jobs not related to direct combat).


One guy had the nerve to say he was scared for his life in the dining facility when the FoB got mortared on the opposite side (about a half mile away), but acted all tough later on. But complained of PTSD yet never saw action or dealt with seeing his buddies blown up, as the friends I mentioned earlier have. I know this is fact because I was there and saw it with them...

Yet they don't complain or make a deal out of it, we just keep to our selves and wonder wtf is going on with everyone. How is it different for people who have gone out the wire and been in the sh it, that much from those who never have. I can see possibly, soldiers who have been in combat being suicidal because of the crap they have gone and go through.

Because many return back home (by home I mean the USA, in garrison) to be treated like a nobody, even though they "earned" their combat patch. It is a game of favoritism back home, and many don't play games after being through so much. Medical gets put aside until the unit redeploys and gets a screening. It was the same for me and dental, I only got into dental after a year of trying to make an appointment because of pre-deployment screening SRP as it is called.

The people we talk to are either A "civilians" or B POGs who never deployed, yet both act like they are better, but their job is to help us, and they don't.
Soldiers who do have psychological issues from TBI and real PTSD go to "restoration centers" to talk to a professional, yet wait a month or more to do so. When they do, they get about an hour a month if that. Then prescribed the meds, which as mentioned earlier don't cure diddley.

What are soldiers to do, they are alienated from every one who didn't go through what they did, no one want to listen, and half the time the soldier ain't going to talk to just any one about combat. It is too much to deal with every day, not sleeping and when sleep does come it is in one or two hour fits.

Restless horror filled memories that no one should have, no amount of talking or meds will change that. This is why Nam, Korean, WWII and WWI vets were known for not talking about it. Because it's one of those things you just don't talk about. Period, it cant be changed and nothing will make it go away.

This is what I suspect happened to the suicides, they had more trouble than they could handle alone, and even though it is said the military has medical. If you can get in to be seen is one thing hard enough, but the barely standard service is not even worth it.

My opinion is the soldiers need to be with other soldiers who have actually been in the tough situations. These are the ones who will under stand. A program needs to be set up for soldiers by soldiers.

How ever, on the other side though is the non suicides, who I think have had good friends that were by each others side, even back home watching out for each other. That is what helped me get through the last year, and I know it helped them as well.

I've said more than I should have, but if even this glimpse shows a fraction of what is going on, hopefully it helps one see that much.

It has been almost a year to the month since my unit has returned home, and this is the most I have mentioned about what we deal with, and it isn't even all of it. Others have their side of things, so I will leave it at that.

Take it as you will, maybe one day the military will actually do what makes sense.


reply posted on 1-12-2008 @ 10:02 PM by Bunch
reply to post by cmd18B



Thanks!

All the things I mention are for experience, for what I felt when I came back from deployments and for situations that I have seen my brothers and sister in arms when they reutrn.

Sometimes are higher ups dont understand how HARD it ease to come back from deployments and re-adjust to "normal" life whether that means going back to the civilian lifestyle if you are guard or reserve or back on station if your are active duty.

After I came back I had such a hard time re-adjusting that it was very overwhelming, I didn't want it to go out, I didn't found no one who could relate to what I went through, thank God, that I did have some very good friends and supervisors that understood my situation and guide me through it but as far as professional help there was none and even if they are it gets look in sich a bad light not to mention possible loss of security clearance and other hassels.

Marital problems are also a BIG ISSUE, I was single for my deployments but I witness guys trying to kill themselves and having a hard time coupling with marital problems while deployed, the root of the issue being the deployment lenghts mainly.

Then you have the guys that have a hard time with the horrors of war, mainly young kids that just ended playing playstation and have to hop in a humvee and having their buddies killed. Or those who go outside the wire and be always on edge, is not easy and some of these kids do not know how to turn that switch off.

Sometimes I think that the DoD do not realize what their biggest asset is.


reply posted on 2-12-2008 @ 01:40 AM by janeson
"A program needs to be set up for soldiers by soldiers"

That's the nail on the head. Remember also this is a form of guerilla war or street warfare like in Northern Ireland, so the enemy may not be obvious, therefore no one can be trusted which results in greater, longer term stress.

"Passenger"; it is an issue that can only get worse if not dealt with, my view on the post is that mental illness causes suicide.So catch the illness.

'InSpiteOf'; The military are worlds of their own with their own language, traditions, in jokes and rules of interaction, so yesall military instutions are different.

Something very strange has happened in the U.S. and the U.K. in recent times,,there is no activism, nobody gets out into the streets to protest or downs tools and therefore gain media attention which could result in the Military finally getting the message.

Yes, understand absolutely your point of those not being 'active' participants as it were and that not only does a distinction need to be made, It needs to be soon. As it's no point if you guys who are facing the brunt are having to be put on a waiting list which includes non-active as you are the ones most in need.

The acute cases who have seen battle should be right at the top and I'm afraid the only way i can think of is for youto make yourselves heard and for more medical and psychological proffessionals to have come from that very background of active service who can then not only empathize but also recognise what is needed and how soon.

I wasn't aware that they maybe lump in less acute cases and will try find this out during the week.

But here's the rub; Until the army and society stop regarding psychological illness as the poor cousin of physical illness they will do damage to the military establishment in the long term.

Mental illness kills also: through not taking care of yourself, self-medicating, giving up the will to live from a feeling of worthlessness which results eventually in suicide; a way of death that relatives can never get over their grief, with their own guilt that they were helpless to understand the helplessness of their forces loved ones in trying to explain what they had to face.

Each time a soldier is pensioned out due to illness, that is hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of training and more importantly a wealth of personal experience and advice to future troops that they can never put a price on. More fool them.

If that is the case then enough publicity should be made of the fact that those who are in crisis and in dire need of help can effectively be in a waiting list behind an army chef who just needs a short course of sedatives as oppossed to theacute which may need suicide watch, antidepressants, antipsychotic plus sedatives and sleeping pills not to mention hospitalization over a long term with future therapy.

Definitely soldiers can only relate to other soldiers who have gone through the same thing, instead of soldiers beinginvalided out they are the very guys who the forces need the most. there should be a formal military that you guys can sit downwith the younger ones who will go through what you did where you can sit and listen to them and be maybe the only
person who can fully understand what they have just gone through and how you deal with it. Just like you said, looking out for each other'. But it should be something that the forces and especially the officers upwards should be compelled to understand whether they like it or not.


reply posted on 2-12-2008 @ 01:43 AM by janeson
Regarding marriage and family, the forces have a 'duty of care' in my view to bring the families right on board so they can understand that while they are frustrated at the separation time there is a hierarchy of care required and if they were made to understand what their loved ones were going through and they may return damaged from war it would go a long way to their insight of what has happened. Shorter deployment is needed definitely..

But that can only come from the ones like yourselves who have been through it, not somebody who skirts around the sidelines of active combat and certainly not from generals although high up the military foodchain can be ignorant or worse, indifferent to their troops plight. Educate them.

It needs to be explained to the military leaders that there is a vacant position in armed forces that needs to be filled, and that is a battallion of men and women like yourselves who can support each other and advise others on what to expect in theatre but more importantly when they get back, how to deal with life again.

I'm always hearing about troop morale and how important that is, but this could be one of the greatest gifts to that. For these soldiers to know when they return that there will be fellows in arms who will know exactly what they are talking about and exactly how they are feeling.

It's so frustrating, as governments and military are effectively shooting themselves in the foot as far as the future of
the military goes and that by not treating their troops with proper respect and care it will have a long-term effect on not only the public's view of the military but also it will disuade others from joining the armed forces in the future thus losing future wars?

Try and take the medication especially if it is an antidepressant they take at least a couple of weeks to get the benefit noticed although even then everyone is different and if you find one isn't working after about three weeks you must demandanother.

But there is power in numbers, can you imagine how quickly proper care would be introduced if every single soldiers refused orders for one full day, grouped together and demanded to be heard for better conditions? They can't court martial thousands of men and women if there is the threat that thousands more would drop arms in support. It's a childish
example but the more that speak out..sorry for the essay.
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