Hi.. Im in Portugal.. Im 24 years old.. graduated college 1,5 years ago and now im taking a master..
However, Im (and most of my colleagues in college (my course didnt have much people, just 10 or so per year)) an exception..
I have friends with the same age that dont do absolutely nothing.. live and are supported by their parents and spent time just playing video
games..
This is a reality that astounds me!
I dont blame public school here in portugal thought.. i had terrible teachers, yes.. but in a sense that they couldnt "control" students in the
class room.. on the other hand, i had very good teachers that knew how to led students to the learning process..
I say that parents are to blame partially for not taking care of their children and just buy things to entertain them.. However, I can say that i only
saw my parents in the evening and didnt spend much time with them.. even now i dont.. im not very attached to them in a daily basis (of course i loved
them

)
My point is: Where is the PERSONAL REALISATION in this "kids"??
Ok.. i can understand that maybe at 16 years old this can be getting laid with the most number of girls, play soccer well and all of that..
But at 24?? How can they be content only with be a good player in a damned game??
More than moral, ethical issues.. i focus on personal realisation..
I went to college not because of getting a better job etc...
I went because i wanted to work on something that gives me a sense of personal realisation and i worked for it and now i have one.. Hell in first 6
months my wage wasnt even the national minimum wage! And i still worked because i love what i do..
So more than say that they dont have morals, ethics etc.. I think they are completely LOST about the real sense of LIFE.
Hell, personal realisation is more than materialistic.. so it cant be connected with parents giving them all they want.. This is a crisis of more than
values.. its SENSE of LIFE.
Edit to add -> These "childish" friends are reasonable good persons.. they dont steal etc...
[edit on 5-12-2008 by Picao84]