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Originally posted by Jacqua
I think we meet lots of people in our path, and have relationships with them, -- for me - its more about learning about myself, -- theres nothing like a close relationship for that, -- and then the paradox, being alone can bring about much learning also....
I dont think its a good idea to see it as 'searching' for 'the one' -- as there are many 'ones' -- its more about where 'you' are at in this current moment,....everybody comes into our lives to teach us something -- and then they may move 0n, or not, -- stay a while or not, -- its just the way it goes, -- you have to just let it flow, and not try to grasp onto something you think you should have, or are missing out on...
Originally posted by milabb.
I never opened a thread before and I do not write much on ATS (more the reading-type) but since I could not find an answer here yet I decided to open an own thread about my own specific question:
How do you know if you found the right person to spend your life with?
Is it enough that all the "standard-things" are good like wanting to have kids, having the same hobbies etc etc or does there need to be some kind of a "soul-connection"? A lot of you will say the most important is that you love a person (what of course is true), but I think there are probably a lot of love-levels. How can you ever be sure that there is no bigger love out there for you? or is the answer really "you just know"?
Thank you for your point of views!