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Whats Christmas actually about these days?
Originally posted by Karlhungis
I don't want to rob my children of that experience but it is difficult to find the middle ground, letting them get excited for it and not giving in to the sham that it is.
Originally posted by imd12c4funn
Marketing, Consumption and Corporate Profit.
Ahh the hustle and bustle of 21st century civilization.
Originally posted by mcmartinson
I felt much the way you do until I had my own child. And then I started seeing it in a new way - seeing it in a way where it is my job to make the Christmases meaningful for him. And right now, I am doing everything I can to give him the best, most memorable, fun-filled holidays I can. But for me, it is just a time of stress and worries. But it isn't about me.
Just a thought...
[edit on 17-11-2008 by mcmartinson]
Originally posted by Merigold
The most memorable Christmases for me have always been the ones where we didn't have much. One year, we didn't even have electricity. It was pretty bleak. We had pork and beans with Spam for our Christmas dinner - We spent the evening by candle light telling stories and playing poker for matchsticks. I loved my mom and dad so much that night - My sister and I both fell asleep nestled between our parents and feeling like the two luckiest kids ever.
I can barely remember Christmases where we got lots of stuff .
I don't have kids - It's just me and my partner - but we make an effort to write very personal letters to our family members - we decorate them, draw pictures and generally tell them how very much we love them. For the kids in the family we get them small presents, I make an effort to never get them stuff they asked for. I think surprises are wonderful.
Christmas should be about taking a day out to let the people you know how very much you love them - I think that's worth a thousand presents.
Originally posted by Merigold
The most memorable Christmases for me have always been the ones where we didn't have much. One year, we didn't even have electricity. It was pretty bleak. We had pork and beans with Spam for our Christmas dinner - We spent the evening by candle light telling stories and playing poker for matchsticks. I loved my mom and dad so much that night - My sister and I both fell asleep nestled between our parents and feeling like the two luckiest kids ever.
Originally posted by antar
I suppose you can find whatever you are tuned into at the Holidays. Try to change your perspective, and I am certain you will find the true meaning of Christmas alive and well.
Originally posted by dizziedame
I was becoming discouraged because I realized if it was going to happen I would have to make it so. I was just about ready to throw in the towel and say, forget it.
Now that you have put the issue in front of me and our members have posted such wonderful posts my spirit has been renewed and I'm ready to start the festivities.
May you and all our members have a memorable and happy Christmas.