reply to post by Parabol
1. Do you not believe in a genetic basis?
2. Do you believe God creates people pre-damned?
3. Do you feel God gives you the right to judge?
4. Do you feel God hates gays, or anyone for that matter?
1.I really don't know. Perhaps there is, some kind of mutation maybe, but logic tells you that it would not be logical for this mutation to exist,
certainly no benefits could come of it for the species. The males body is made with the parts to penetrate a female body. They work in harmony
together. Except for "other positions" involving other body parts, a homosexual act requires using a part of the body that has a biological use
that is very contradictory to something sexual, i don't want to be to specific, but i'm sure you can understand what i mean, one is for eating and
one is for the opposite of, my point is they have uses that are not in and of themselves sexual whatsoever. Now i know that two men could do things
other than THAT, but i would see THAT as the main way to have intercourse, and it requires one of the two to severely compromise what they sit on.
Now why would nature feel the need to develop a mutation that goes contadictory to furthering the species? If it IS genetic, the only TRUE gay person
would be one born with both sexual organs, that would be God'd (or nature's) way of saying "pick a team, i gave you equipment for both sides...have
2.No i do not think people are made pre-damned, i only follow the bible loosely and IF there is a genetic factor, i don't feel that the sin of being
gay would be any worse than any other sin, in other words you would be forgiven. No one is without sin if indeed sins exist in that simple sense, and
heaven would be a very lonely place if there was no room for forgiveness.
3.No, but he made me born with the common sense to know how a male part plugs into a female part, otherwise you have to get creative to make
intercourse happen otherwise, use parts of the body that are meant for other things.BUT show me someone who never judges, and i will show you someone
who is brain dead. EVERYONE judges, don't try to say you do not.
4.God would only hate one who sets out everyday to destroy faith, and even that would be hard for me to believe, i feel that person would be pitied.
I have my faults...but i do not feel so insecure about them that i feel i must voice it till my lips are blue. Gays having rallies seems to me akin
to me wanting to have a parade about how much i love to play video games...i wasn't born with a predisposition to love video games, it developed.
The parades don't bother me, but i'm just kinda like "what's the point?" From a psychological standpoint it seems as though the majority of gay
people feel guilty or insecure about what they are and are always seeking some type of approval OR displeasure. Either one will suffice for them as
long as they are not ignored. The same goes for those Christians who feel the need to rally against gays, what are they trying to accomplish? They
know they will not "covert" a gay man to being straight, so what need are they trying to compensate for? I cannot tell you the answer to that, but
it feels safe to say the fault would lie in some insecurity or another.
I feel it is totally natural to be able to admire and find those of the same sex attractive, most girls I know can admit that they tried kissing their
girlfriends when discovering sexual urges, i have a feeling that most guys have loked at another man and thought..."you know, if i was gay, HE would
be my type." But good luck getting them to admit it. Me, i have no problems telling you that i find David Bowie back in his prime, or Trent Reznor,
sexy. But i honestly do not have a desire to have sex with them. I find them attractive, i think that is me finding qualities in them that I wished
i possesed, an insecurity if you will. I am slightly jealous of their sexual energy and i think that is what makes them attractive to me. But i
could never perform the act even if i had a whole bottle of viagra. I tried kissing a friend of mine as a teenager, and it did not turn me on. It
didn't gross me out, but it was just kinda like "well, that's it? hmmm...i hope it's way better when i finially get to kiss a girl." and it
was...boy oh boy it was.
Nature or God made us with these bodies of ours, and logic tells you how we fit together, i just don't see why the mutation would not only exist but
seems to be increasing, if anything, the mistake would be faded out. But, then again, why is down syndrome not being phased out? It doesn't benefit
the species either. someone who will discuss this with me (both for and against what i have said) that will be polite and not flame me for anything
i've said, would be welcome to engage in a discussion with.