Originally posted by just_julie
Mate, you are so full of #.
I am done with this thread. All I have gotten are personal attacks.
It's a shame that a group of people can't even discuss the boundaries of right and wrong, and how slack law enforcement can be, while threads like
Julie, I may have made a mess us against AccessDenied but to say we havent discussed, the boundaries and the realities of this is wrong.
You may not have liked some of the responses, but that is the nature of discussion.
Infact I think I broadened the debate a little to look at the legalised aspects of this issue within the world.
And the reality of the male side of this, even though it can sometimes not be a nice picture.
You obviously feel upset at these men in this bar behaving, watching or encouraging this behaviour, and I certainly did not just on the Bloke
bandwagon, in fact called in question our own behaviour and double standards in this regard.
Whilst also being honest about the Socialisation of this issue that has happened over recent years, exploring where the Norm of real abuse is
legalised and in some cases encouraged by parents in parts of the western world for contrast.
Also as said where do the ladies stand on the issue of its wrong if you are 17 yrs old and say 300 days but a month or two later is it ok to be a Porn
star, not just dancing infront of a few men, but doing as they do.
Would you say that as long as the girls are all over a certain age its ok , but just before its not?
This is the issue for me, the legal aspects of when its right and when its wrong based on arbitary written rules, which by the way are usually created
by men, unfortunately their is not enough of a female representation worldwide in Lawmaking.
What would your solution be to this if you could make the law?
18 ok but anything below not? where is the line of acceptance or not, and is it right to have a carte blanche in such cases.
I am sure these issues will trouble societies for many years to come.
What I dont understand Julie is that if it was Illegal as you say, and you reported it to the police, They have to make an investigation don't
Not to would put their jobs at risk no?
So if you have been unable to get the police to do their job, why not inform the local area Inspector, or whatever their rank is in your country?
Surely then by doing that and making a complaint they would have to investigate or they are actually at risk of prosecution themselves not doing as
Just some thoughts on this and maybe how you can stop this if you really feel something very bad is happening, which as the only observer of the event
here, are the only one to know.
You could also make an unnamed call to the local press, they I am sure would love the sensationalist nature of this, and the bad publicity would force
the bar owner to change this event to legality only?
In addition maybe inform one of the dad's especially if one is as you say just 15 (this i find to understand Im pretty sure the police would be over
this like a rash if that was the case, its bordering on peadophilia, so my responses may have been based in part on sceptisism)
I am sure he would be having a "word" or two in the alley out the back with the bar owner pretty quick?