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I have never really known anyone who was a homosexual so I dont have anyone I could ask
[I tried to be with a man because I was so scared to come out, but it just felt wrong.]
How old were you ? and what made you feel like it was wrong ?Did you ever try it again later when you were older and did it feel wrong everytime ?
And what made your parents think you were gonna be gay ?
Maybe the feeling of it being wrong was because you were too young and your concience was just telling you that you were not old enough to even have sex yet .
Originally posted by Simplynoone
[I tried to be with a man because I was so scared to come out, but it just felt wrong.]
How old were you ? and what made you feel like it was wrong ?Did you ever try it again later when you were older and did it feel wrong everytime ?
And what made your parents think you were gonna be gay ?
If gay men do not like women then why do they pick a feminine type man instead of another macho one ?
Originally posted by dave420
Personally I believe there's a sliding scale between 'gay' and 'straight', and each of us will be happiest when we find our place on it, and that each and every spot on the scale is as perfectly normal as any other.
Originally posted by Simplynoone
If gay men do not like women then why do they pick a feminine type man instead of another macho one ? This tells me it is mostly a sexual preference more than an emotional one ..same thing with lesbians ..the macho one always picks a feminine one ...WHY ? Why not two macho types and two feminine types together ?
Originally posted by Simplynoone
How old were you ?
and what made you feel like it was wrong ?
Did you ever try it again later when you were older and did it feel wrong everytime ?
And what made your parents think you were gonna be gay ?
If as some of you believe it was a genetic defect ..then I wonder if there is also a genetic defect with pedophiles,transvestites,S&Ms etc etc .....if so is the same defect or a different one ..because they are all sexual in nature ..
Originally posted by Simplynoone
Why is it that some you think that everyone must be a bigot just because they are asking YOU *(the source) the questions ?
Just so yall know ..I am different too ...in many ways ..(I dont like any sex) not that I am celebate because I am not ....
(I am thinking I could also have some sort of genetic defect ) which is one reason why I ask so many questions from everyone about sex ..
I feel like it is so totally physical that I actually hate it because of that .(Always have even before knowing anything about sex)
So I am not the bad christian who hates anyone thats different and only wish hell on you all ..because that is not me at all ...