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Originally posted by riley
This is for educational purposes as this subject is turning this forum into a "Can't get layed" anti-woman whine fest which may make it uncomfortable for some women to continue posting.
..though I doubt this would sink in either.
www.heartless-bitches.com...All too often we hear self-professed "Nice Guys" complaining about why they can't get a date, and whining that women just want to date jerks, etc. etc. The truth of the matter is that there are genuinely caring, compassionate, decent, fun guys out there who have NO TROUBLE meeting people, getting dates, and having relationships.
Unfortunately, many of the guys who DO have trouble, insist that women don't want them because they are "too Nice". These people who call themselves "Nice Guys" can't see that THEIR OWN behavior is the problem. That behavior either drives women away or attracts the WORST kind of predator - one who is manipulative and self-serving. Whether it is targeting women who are troubled to begin with, setting themselves up to be taken advantage of, or acting in a manipulative, patronizing or obsequious fashion, these guys sabotage themselves and often blame "all women" for their misfortunes.
This section is devoted to the guys who suffer from that self-professed "Nice Guy" affliction. Here is the place to find out why YOUR behavior isn't as "Nice" as you think it is...
Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS
Nice guys who put women on pedestals. By worshipping her, you objectify and demean her.
Nice guys who think they're the ONLY amateurs in the world at love, and that when a woman doesn't want to have anything to do with them, they're hateful, spiteful bitches who are experts at hurting poor, poor widdle innocent nice guys. Yep, we all read books on how to do it. All girls receive secret, expert instruction from their gym teachers, usually in 5th grade in most school districts, about the ins and outs of love, while the poor nice guys are left to fumble around with no clues.
Nice guys who are too STUPID to figure out any other way out of their so-called predicament except to conclude that they have to become woman-battering heavy drinkers and sports players.
Nice guys who sit there passively waiting for life to happen to them, instead of actively pursing their goals and dreams.
Emphasis mine most obviously.
[edit on 27-4-2010 by riley]
why do women have to hold the 'victim' card if any?
"It is commonly known that the majority of women in the West will be a victim of either a violent rape or a date-rape at some point in their lives
The female psyche is a strange and peculiar thing that is difficult for men to understand. It defies logic and reason because although the females may have logic and reason, their psyche doesn't necessarily abide by them in a manner which men can easily comprehend."
Only the "badboy" types, who don't care as much can keep a straight face when a woman asks to be smacked around while getting "#ed"
To be even more f-ed up is that this type of behavior is very common in POP CULTURE.
Can you see, in porn, which is VERY popular in mainstream society... The female is always in submission to an aggressive 'dominant' male.
quiet storm is right, im sick of all the media making only "the chosen ones/badboys" get all the girls to do all the dirty stuff,while the "loosers" just stand.
well that can work both ways? what happens when the good guy becomes a pshycopath and beats the crap off the bad guy huh? then the female likes him?
you all know atleast once story,when someone was trying to steal a girl,and her boyfriend finnaly beated him up,and the girl goed to hug the stealer,now isnt that a stupid GWIG#$@?
Originally posted by Stillalive
i dont walk around in only underpants showing half of my private area.
Originally posted by Stillalive
but yea seriously,if you do the "head to toe" stare -down,the girl is going to go mad.i do that to make them angry as a joke like theyr prostitutes.