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Originally posted by Edrick
MAYBE FAILURE IS YOUR THING.
You are a bit cold and mean though Edrick I'll give you that, even if most if not all of what you say is true..
I wonder though.. if you weren't the way you were would people respect you less and take advantage of you?
I know when I've shown my good side people take advantage.. women especially, dont even think twice about it. It might be normal for them to take advantage of men.
It's like.. when I'm doing things for girls, being good and considerate... they dont even stop to say thank you or anything, or recognize that I'm being courteous. They think it's pathetic.
Well you know sometimes we men do have to do things for them, otherwise not only would they complain, and it's not even about that.. sometimes women do need a little help when it comes to physical labor especially. But they should be thankful and not take men for granted.
I was making a general observation on how nasty this thread has gotten..
it's meant to be about "why women dump nice guys" yet somehow its become about how all women are feminazi bitches who are taking advantage of poor innocent "nice" men even though they're being whiney, are passive aggressive and have sexual entitlement issues. You even started saying women LIKED being abused and liked tyrants yet you cry "charactor attack" when women react to your abuse.
Strange how women are getting so angry with you even though you are being hateful.
That disproves your theory: Your "meaness" should be turning us all on by your reckoning. If you were right we'd be all flooding your inbox with romantic requests because we can't resist badboys.
You do not want to discuss the topic. Both yourself and quietstorm just want to use it as a platform to bash women and have your bigoted self serving beliefs of women validated.
You are not doing him any favours by indulging him.
Bad boys, it seems, really do get all the girls. Women might claim they want caring, thoughtful types but scientists have discovered what they really want – self-obsessed, lying psychopaths.
A study has found that men with the "dark triad" of traits – narcissism, thrill- seeking and deceitfulness – are likely to have a larger number of sexual affairs.
Peter Jonason, of New Mexico University in Las Cruces, believes that these traits may have an innate, genetic component that explains why some men seem unable to stop themselves behaving badly.
The dark triad of traits are the self-obsession of narcissism, the impulsive, thrill-seeking and callous behaviour of psychopaths and the deceitful and exploitative nature of Machiavellianism. "We have some evidence these traits may represent a successful evolutionary strategy," Dr Jonason told New Scientist magazine.
I really think only 2% of guys would fit the stereotype of Nice.
Same with the amount of narcissistic psychopaths, 2 percent.
The vast majority fall somewhere in the middle and many other factors besides those ideal fantasies result in breeding and how many women a guy can get.
The “single most underappreciated fact about gender,” he said, is the ratio of our male to female ancestors. While it’s true that about half of all the people who ever lived were men, the typical male was much more likely than the typical woman to die without reproducing. Citing recent DNA research, Dr. Baumeister explained that today’s human population is descended from twice as many women as men. Maybe 80 percent of women reproduced, whereas only 40 percent of men did.
women crave power and wealth in men.
men crave beauty and youth in women.
Originally posted by ewokdisco
ignore that post above, these men will help you have more selection and choices with women. try and read the game by Neil strauss, he talks of being lonely and bad with women and then learned how not to be. that book 'the game' is a good starting point. and be VERY suspicious of anyone one who says 'just be yourself' or slams men who want other men to do well with women...