Originally posted by justamomma
Women CAN, but is that REALLY better? I CAN and AM raising two sons on my own, but I will be the first to admit that having a partner I could trust
and rely on to meet the needs that can be best met by a man would be ideal. Unfortunately, thanks to the femi-natzi movement, men have started
objectifying women and it makes it hard to find a REAL man... because they have given up trying to find a REAL woman.
It isn't a matter of being better; it is a matter of FACT. There was a time where women like you and women like my mother could not have done what
you and she are doing/did. Not only was frowned upon by society, but it was actually impossible due to the lack of opportunities that women had.
I had a single mother, too, and she was wonderful. Smart and strong and self sufficient and supportive. Would it have been nice for her to have a
man to be there for her and support her and help her? Of course. But the point I was making is that she didn't NEED it. She did it on her own
because she was ABLE to....she was able to go to college after her divorce, use that degree to get a good job that supported her and me. She probably
wouldn't have been able to do that even 50 years ago.
Men and women are different, sure. Men have their strengths, physical and mental. Women have their strengths, physical and mental. But, do men have
a genetic component that make them more INTELLIGENT or SMARTER (common sense) than women? Or, can both men and women reach the same levels of
intelligence given the same set of circumstances (lifestyle, parents, environment), the same opportunities (education, culture) and the same level
playing field?
I think the latter is more true than the former.