Originally posted by AshleyD
This is mainly addressed to Christians but everyone's thoughts on the subject are more than welcome. 
I have to say, I've played the "Some Christian You Are" card before. When people put forth their way of life as the "right" way to live and
everyone else's way of life is "wrong", then I think they're putting themselves in a position of "righteousness". Some (not all) Christians are
very SELF-righteous when it comes to their religious or spiritual beliefs and make it no secret that they KNOW the truth and others do not.
I don't have any problem with Christians choosing their way of life. Not at all. I think it's great that people can find something that makes them
feel fulfilled and happy. But when they preach a certain set of "Rules" that we
all should follow and then don't follow those rules
themselves... I think they invite the criticism of "Some Christian You Are", because it becomes a state of hypocrisy.
A person who tries to follow their religion and sometimes fails is hardly the same as a person who preaches
to others how "wrong" they are
for their choices in life and then makes those same choices themselves. In other words, let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
Some Christians (and I'm talking about the ones I've played the card with) cast those stones freely, living in self-righteousness, telling others
how wrong they are and then think they should be immune from charges of hypocrisy. And I say, if you don't want to be called a hypocrite, stop trying
to impose the rules of your religion/beliefs on everyone else.
If you ARE going to take the position that your beliefs are "right" and those who disagree are "wrong", AND you make the choice to impose your
religious rules on others, then you're going to hear people call you on the rules you insist they follow. You (generic) can't sit back and tell
everyone the "right" way to live and push it on them and then expect to be immune from criticism when you don't follow the rules yourself.
In my experience, people of every belief system are challenged for their beliefs, whether religious or not. It's part of stating your beliefs. Once
you put them out there for inspection, likely someone is going to say something about it. And if you take a hard line and say that
all people
should believe as you do, and follow the rules you do, then you should expect it to be pointed out, when you don't follow them. And I'll go further
and say that you should expect criticism even when you do. Because you are setting the rules for everyone, you're placing your beliefs above
others'.
On the other hand, if you put your beliefs out there and say that you try hard to live up to your own standards, and don't push them on people,
people are more likely to be understanding and even encouraging when you fall short.
Let me ask you, Ashley. What is appropriate to say (or think) when I see a cartoon like the one Dbates posted that shows someone with high standards
(in this case Christians) trying hard to meet his standards, but faltering as opposed to someone (in this case non-Christians) supposedly having very
low standards, easily met, calling the Christian a hypocrite?
The first thing that comes to mind is "How very Christian of him to judge non-Christians as having low standards." And he completely 100% seems to
believe that non-Christians have low standards and Christians have high standards. I can't tell you how messed up I think that is.
The second thing that comes to mind is... If
I can see that his assumptions in the cartoon are "not very Christian-like", being judgmental,
hateful and contemptuous of non-Christians, and he thinks it's just fine, then whose standards are really low here?
IS that Christian-like behavior? (rhetorical) Because that's not what I learned Christians are about. I mean, I can't see Jesus posting that
cartoon. I can't see him boasting about his high standards and blatantly indicating that those who don't follow him are "beneath" him or have low
standards. I mean, that's not how Jesus acted. Not with Mary Magdeline, not with Judas, not with any of the "sinners" he knew... He was loving,
compassionate and patient.
I'm not going to call Dbates on his cartoon, because his opinion of non-Christians doesn't really matter to me. But I think it's pretty easy to see
where the label of "hypocrite" comes from in some cases.
Bottom line, if you (generic) want people to be encouraging and understanding when you miss your mark, stop trying to get everyone on YOUR mark. If
you insist on your beliefs being right for everyone, then get used to being called out on it.
That's just how I see it.