Waitresses are hard to get. She's there to make money, not friends. The last thing on her mind is, "Oh my god, that guy's cute. I hope he asks
me out. Hehe."
Ha, nope. It's more like, "My god, will guys ever learn?" :shk:
Think about it. Most good looking girls get hit on constantly and the hotter ones even more so. As a waitress, she's being hit on by multiple guys,
at the same time, every hour. Endless pathetic attempts to claim what will never be theirs. Leaving business cards with wretched one liners on the
Most of my close friends are hot girls who work or have worked as bartenders or servers. I can speak from their experience and my own, you can't get
a waitress if shes thinks you're hitting on her. Gotta be a little different my friend. Not like every other D-bag that walks in there like he
owns the place.
The best thing to do, if you ask me, frequent her place of work. Ask to be in her section and tip her well when you leave, but not too much. Bring
another girl with you sometimes. Try to go when she's not busy so you have a chance to talk to her more often. When you do talk to her, be funny,
tease her a lot, tell her stories about some fun sh!t you've done recently. Tell her how you have big plans for later on in the evening.
Eventually, when you notice that she's opening up to you
, like hugging you when you arrive at the place, asking you all the questions, sitting
down with you to tell you
about something personal, that's when you invite her out. But not on a date. Not yet. Tell her your going on one
of your fun nights with some friends and ask if she wants to tag along. Good Stuff.
Good luck. Side note, Getting to know the manager and the bouncers, if it's a bar/club, is always a plus.
By the way, I love hitting on waitresses. I have a thing for 'em. I always end up dating bartenders and servers for some reason. Something about
a woman serving people. I don't know really.