I basically understand what you're trying to say. My feeling with the ones we've encountered since at least my childhood, were initially working
with nazis, or human coalition. I don't feel that way about them any longer, as if they are doing their own thing.
However, our little guard cat did not take to them at all! But the others, are ones that come through some experiences I trust, at least one of
them. Questions, would an inter-racial group be more benign than one race? Would this suggest a federation? But there are talk of several
federations? Lyrae is the ancient origin of the human race. Is it taken over then?
Procyon is said to have freed itself recently from greys,

do we know.
I think my biggest point is, that the feelings people would want to trust within themselves are the easiest thing for them to hijack! They are expert
psi telepathic manipulators. This is for real. You cannot trust gut feelings! But in the end, most will be relying on that, and that alone. One
lifelong account I know of (and this scenario is not like the one he was shown, though it did involve a drill for rescue for his family in the event
of sitx) the one group would come in to save the world and offer a package deal for us that involved control. Then the pleiadian/nordic group he has
involved workings with, and I couldn't tell if it would soon after that, or years in the future, would offer a better deal, more empowering. And the
watching group ensured that we had choices.
To board ships without a sense of who you were dealing with in an emergency, children in tow, doesn't qualify as any kind of universal law, and it
makes them all jerks beyond imagination! Universal law actually involves the full right to know. True chosing isn't a shotgun marriage. Its not
like our elections, where they lie to gain power. Our political system does not equate any high standard of law, but rather treason. This is a
circumventing of law as well and treachery from the overseeing council.