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Originally posted by Fury
Because of leave it to beaver.
not everyone becomes a mass murderer, but everyone diciplined with the proper amount of time spent with thier parents isn't .
I mean come on, look at columbine. those parents didn't know their kids were #ing around with guns, and those kids had video tapes.. or checked thier assignments? that writing assignement that one of them made pretty much outlined what they were gonna do.
Originally posted by Jonna
Actually, I just don't want to waste my time trying to discuss things with a brick wall that refused to except that its ego might just be bigger then its intelligence. But feel free to comment on this post as you seem like the type of person that always needs to get the last word in for the sake of feeling superior. Good luck with that.
Originally posted by Thorfinn Skullsplitter
I don't think you understand the severity in the difference of our up-bringing.
(this was posted earlier by me)
"I grew up watching very violent movies and playing very violent games. I have been a loner my whole life. I got my first gun at 13 and had three by the time I was 15. I was often around drugs and violent people during that time. I was often unsupervised also."
This is just a very very small and brief example of my pre-teen and teen years.
Actually, when I think about it. I was a prime canidate to kill those that I felt have wronged me. I definately had the means and desire. But I didn't...
Originally posted by Thorfinn Skullsplitter
Originally posted by Fury
Thank you for your commendation. I do appreciate that. And yeah, issues are everywhere
But, based on the example I have given. Wouldn't you have to agree that it's not all parenting but also depends on the person/child?
Originally posted by Brittany
Well, If you are giving them MORE than a physical modifier, and that is effective, why is the "physical modifier" needed at all?
Originally posted by Brittany
Well, If you are giving them MORE than a physical modifier, and that is effective, why is the "physical modifier" needed at all?
Originally posted by Thorfinn Skullsplitter
Originally posted by Brittany
Well, If you are giving them MORE than a physical modifier, and that is effective, why is the "physical modifier" needed at all?
Yes. The physical modifier is needed.
Say your kid comes home late one night. Didn't call. Won't tell you were they've been. They have stolen property on them, and tell you to # off on their way to their room.
That little kid would be in for an ass whoopin' in my opinion...
Originally posted by Brittany
I was never spanked.
When I was a baby/toddler, and did something wrong, like say, take a toy away from another child, my parents would use harsher voices (not yelling though, I was little), and return the toy to the other child. They would say, "Brittany, sound-and-so had this toy first. Lets go find another toy for you!" I would cry, because I knew that when my parent's voices were raised, they meant business. (because to me, that meant they were upset and I had done something wrong.)
I was too young to maybe understand the concept, like you said, but the fact that my parents raised their voices, which they don't often do, told me they were upset at me.
Originally posted by intrepid
His intention was to hurt everyone exept for his three friends.