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Originally posted by fishneedh2oNow your friends might beat the odds and make it to their 75th wedding anniversary.
Originally posted by fishneedh2oGive them your love and support for better or worse.
Originally posted by JackofBlades
I'd recommend telling him you support his decision, whatever it may be 100%.
But advise him to make sure he has a steady job, a lovely house and a few savings prepared before having a baby.
Babies and weddings are both very expensive things, and I think even someone who had been saving for a while could comfortably afford both within a short time of one another.
Tell him if they're really in love, it won't matter how long they'll have to wait before because it'll eventually happen. At a time when life making decisions are being made, you'll be a better friend if you rationally support him rather than try and convince him its a bad idea. Be there, support him and just be a mate.