weird guy with red eyes

I've had many experiences (little shadow-men running around my room at night to start with) and firmly believe in the super(supra)-natural. However, the first question that comes to my mind is this: is it at all possible that the man in her room is either your fiance or your father? I realize the bluntness of the question, but since my sister is an abuse survivor, I feel it's okay to ask. My sister related stories about choking, and not being able to speak, and only later it was discovered that my father was the reason for that... but she was too young to verbalize or comprehend what was happening to her. I guess it depends a lot on what type of person your younger sister is and how old she is. My sister was abused from the time she was 5 until 11 so she was quite young. I don't know why I felt the need to respond, but I did.