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Originally posted by justamomma
Originally posted by chise61When it comes down to it you have to raise your children as you see fit, just as your mother raised you as she saw fit. You may want to remind her of that fact.
Very well put You make an excellent point (just remember OP to be respectful when telling her. After all she is your momma and did what she thought was best).
Originally posted by Clearskies
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If you don't teach them about God, you will go against reality.
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Originally posted by quaple_pouge
Food for thought:
My mother in law raised my husband and his sister without any belief system. They are two of the most "lost" people I have ever met (and I don't mean in the Christian sense of the word saved vs lost).
They have floundered their entire lives.
Children need to be raised with some sort of belief system. I'm not sure how your parents were, but bringing your children to church is not "forcing" religion down their throats, it is simply giving them a base or foundation that they desperately need.
Originally posted by asmeone2At this point I don't feel the desire to be that blunt, because I think it would only cause conflict.
I would not hesitate to put my foot down if it came to that, though.
Originally posted by asmeone2At this point I don't feel the desire to be that blunt, because I think it would only cause conflict.
I would not hesitate to put my foot down if it came to that, though.
Originally posted by justamomma
reply to post by NOTurTypical
Obviously I knew that christians believe "god inspired man" because I called out your rebuttal before you even wrote it.
[edit on 7-8-2008 by justamomma]
Originally posted by Clearskies
There are a LOT of atheists and agnostics who are not consistent in their logic.
Why is it, if a Christian states their faith, they're immediately insulted with names? 'Narrow-minded', 'oppressive' and 'gullible believer of lies?', many here that I haven't posted.
But, when someone of atheism, agnosticism does the same, they are USUALLY never insulted?
I believe it's about one's character.
BTW, I have NEVER in all my years heard anyone (who is a Christian) say.
"God works in mysterious ways"!
now, you may continue with your christian-bashing, if you so choose
[edit on 7-8-2008 by Clearskies]
I 100% agree, in the end it's up to them, it's what is in their heart.
Originally posted by asmeone2
I know what you mean, but I'm simply stating that we never stop being our parent's children, I still go to Mom and Pops for advice, most likely they have experienced something I'm having a difficult time with.
Now, of course a parent wouldn't teach that aspect of Christianity to a toddler, but when the child is older it is okay. For a toddler teaching them that "God made kitty", etc... I don't think anyone assumes the parent should teach every aspect of God's Word to toddlers, when they are that age teach them to fear God, just the way we teach them to fear the belt if they act up.
The lesson has to match the level they can comprehend... baby steps. I was pointing out that it seemed like you were saying that at some point we were no longer our parents children, or that their "teachings" ended when we went off to school.
No matter what you teach your children, in the religious sense, it is in the end up to them if they follow it or not.
I don't agree with your second post. We should not fear god, we should try to be in harmony with him. Christianity sells that, but doesn't deliver it. Children should not learn to act a certain way because they're afraid of getting spanked. That only makes the child angry and one day, that will backfire.
Originally posted by NOTurTypical
Originally posted by justamomma
reply to post by NOTurTypical
Obviously I knew that christians believe "god inspired man" because I called out your rebuttal before you even wrote it.
[edit on 7-8-2008 by justamomma]
Are you a wizard because you are aware of one of the fundamentals of Christianity?
Wow, I guess.
Originally posted by AshleyD
'Choose you this day whom you will serve. As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.'
Originally posted by Clearskies
reply to post by asmeone2
I've been 'in harmony' with God off and on for almost 16 years.
If I'm not 'connected', it's a problem on my side, it's called backsliding.
Jesus came and hugged me and wiped the tears from my eyes(not literally) when I
finally asked him to be my Saviour and forgive me.
I've felt Him with me and gotten discernment and secret knowledge from Him MANY times!
From ashes to Beauty!
[edit on 7-8-2008 by Clearskies]