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"The Porn Myth"

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posted on Aug, 21 2008 @ 10:54 AM
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reply to post by Illusionsaregrander
 


i'm very hapily married to a very beautiful woman

so frustration isnt the issue

what im saying is that sexual power lies almost 100% with a woman

a man has to beg
all a woman as to do is ask

(so to speak)

So if pornography starts with anyone - it'd have to be with a woman

just my opinion of course

i dont' view "porn" as a bad thing at all

its existed for centuries and our civilization still lives on...

"numb"?

Perhaps its the TYPES of men that some women are interested in that gives them that impression.

I can assure you - it has nothing to do with pornography



posted on Aug, 21 2008 @ 11:07 AM
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Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander

You cant let society, or any other person define success for you. Thats the real wisdom in your statement that; "I feel like if I didn't care about anything, I could accomplish anything." If you care about what you internally "know" is important to YOU, and you do not waste your time caring what other people say is important, you CAN be a great success.

Let me rephrase that, "I feel like if I didn't care about anything, I could DO anything"
But you see I do care about people, and so this would not make me happy anyway.
So doing whatever I want without mercy won't make me happy, unless I have no feelings left, unless I become numb to the world.

Trust me I don't let society or any person define success for me, actually I actually don't give a crap what people think about me.

That's why I have never been a sheep, I never blindly followed people around in when in school, never went along with what they did or want just because I was worried what they think, I always did what I wanted, always said what I thought. That's one thing I will never be, a sheeple.

So as you see I already know what your trying to say, and I agree.

Peace.



[edit on 21-8-2008 by _Phoenix_]



posted on Aug, 21 2008 @ 11:14 AM
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I added a lot more to my post about that issue, of men having to beg, lol, sorry. I didnt want to post repeatedly when one would do, but I am guessing you didnt see that part.



posted on Aug, 21 2008 @ 11:19 AM
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It was this part of your post;



I think most of the people at top in this world are probably the least empathetic of people, because it's easier for them to accomplish what they want without worries.


That I was mostly responding to. The idea that to get to the "top" one had to be kind of a jerk. Thats only the top of the money heap.

If you are already happy being who you are, you are already on the top and you didnt have to do any of that.

It was how you were defining the "top" that I was responding to, not the use of the word accomplish or do.



posted on Aug, 21 2008 @ 01:43 PM
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Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander


If you are already happy being who you are, you are already on the top and you didnt have to do any of that.

It was how you were defining the "top" that I was responding to, not the use of the word accomplish or do.


Yeah I get it, I was defining top as top in a business, company, politics etc.
Not really as top in happiness or life etc.

[edit on 21-8-2008 by _Phoenix_]



posted on Aug, 21 2008 @ 04:15 PM
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Originally posted by _Phoenix_
Yeah I get it, I was defining top as top in a business, company, politics etc. Not really as top in happiness or life etc.


Success in business is primarily an emotional trait, not really tied to high iq. The drive, the emotional attitude that "they can do it", the lack of skepticism, and the desire to win without worrying about other people are key factors.

And yeah, I often wish I had a different emotional makeup as there are so many fools that become so successful, it is frustrating at times.



posted on Aug, 22 2008 @ 10:19 AM
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And once again a feminist article bashing the male persuasion making women want to burn their bras and take to the streets.

This kind of garbage makes me sick sick sick


In my opinion we as men latch onto these women in pornographic material due to their sexual confidence. We as men looooonnnnnngggg for women who are confident in themselves and in their bodies to be as sexually free as we are.

We dont want our girlfriends to be shy and shut off to the idea of dressing up in sexy attire, communicating during intercourse (dirty talking) and watching them in the act with the lights fully on.

Just as a woman loves men with confidence, we love women who are also confident.

And sorry to say, but a woman with breast implants are more sexy because of the confidence boost they get once they go through with it.

And here is what I think about breast implants.

I, as a man, am extremely jelous that I cannot do something to myself such as (implants) that will benefit me in life.

Think about it...Every job interview, every class you take, every store you walk into...you will be noticed over any other woman in the place. Why? Because you went out, spent 6000 bucks and had two pieces of silicon filled with salt water swelling off your chest...its sad but true.

You walk into a dealership to buy a car...you will prolly get a better deal.

You go to get a loan at a bank.

You are at your local subway...can you throw in some cookies too? ( . ) ( . )

As with the whole porn thing...like I said before...we love a woman who is confident in her body to be as forward as these women in the industry.

I would bet the world would be a better place if women were as sexually driven as men...or at least as vocal about it.



posted on Aug, 22 2008 @ 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by Perfectenemy05

I, as a man, am extremely jelous that I cannot do something to myself such as (implants) that will benefit me in life.

Think about it...Every job interview, every class you take, every store you walk into...you will be noticed over any other woman in the place. Why? Because you went out, spent 6000 bucks and had two pieces of silicon filled with salt water swelling off your chest...its sad but true.



Well, you have to be jealous no longer!!

There IS a surgery you can have that will make you more attractive to women, AND more likely to get the good job, and be respected by other men as well.

(I knew you would be pleased)

You can have your legs broken and then put into braces that stretch the broken ends apart and it will make you taller!

ducknetweb.blogspot.com...


It's called limb lengthening and for years the procedure was done almost exclusively to correct developmental deformities or repair damage to limbs after an accident. But more and more often the surgery is being done for cosmetic reasons to help people primarily men grow a little taller.


Studies have shown that;

findarticles.com...


However, Dunbar said the numbers clearly show women favor taller men --- something that other research suggests is true across all cultures.

"Basically, height is a proxy for other variables that women find desirable --- men who can protect them, provide them with resources, have good social status and aren't easily dominated by other men," said Dunbar, a professor of evolutionary psychology and the study's co-author.


www.sixwise.com...


Tall Men and Money

For "Blink," Gladwell polled about half of the Fortune 500 companies and found that the majority of their CEOs were tall, white men, and:

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The average CEO was just under 6 feet (the average American man is 5'9")
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Among the CEOs, 58 percent were 6 feet or over
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In the United States, 14.5 percent of men are 6 feet or over
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Some 30 percent of the CEOs were 6'2" or taller
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Only 3.9 percent of U.S. men are 6'2" or taller

"Height matters for career success," said Timothy Judge, a University of Florida management professor who co-conducted a study on the topic.


The surgery sounds a bit painful, but you will probably forget about it when you are enjoying all the rewards of your new accentuated height!

Be sure to update us on how it goes!



posted on Dec, 13 2008 @ 08:19 AM
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"That hasnt been MY experience. I havent dated in years primarily because those women i have encountered and who are eligible, single, and available are sometimes just as interested in appearances or the superficial equivalent. One woman remarked "you finally got a car" when i drove up to a conveneince store she was gassing up at."

Pornography IS the superficial equivalent to sex. Appearances....How often do you fantasize over a slovenly dressed woman? Men usually look for what a woman is wearing. Women look at how a man carries himself, and she doesn't want a man she will have to support, that is where the car comes in. Women don't like to walk, especially in heels. That is the game, you either play or you don't....and if you don't want to play, well, that is what the porn is for.



posted on Jul, 8 2011 @ 05:44 PM
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You might be interested in this article: www.etherzone.com...

Is Porn Killing Sex In Japan?



posted on Jul, 9 2011 @ 02:20 AM
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Have you seen Ron Jeremy with his member put away?

I agree with the earlier post about a lot of this having to do with visual stimulation for men and western women "pricing" themselves out of the market.

This may have something to do with all the porn: (Pharmacy Times June 13th 2011)

In 1996, only 16.7% of women were obese, but obesity’s prevalence increased more than 50% among women in the past decade, surpassing that of men. 1 In fact, from 2007 to 2008, female obesity prevalence climbed to 35.5% compared with 32.2% for men. 2 Female obesity rates are even higher among African American, lesbian, and sexually abused women. 3,4 Socio-cultural factors are also a significant factor when it comes to obesity in women. Educated women with middle or high incomes are less likely to be obese than women with less education and low incomes—a sociocultural relationship absent in obese men.

How about they stop cutting their chests open and stuffing them with bags filled with w/e and start reading or educating themselves so that more men and women could talk about something other than how ridiculous it is that Jenny is wearing the same shoes as Susan. Or how funny it was when Tina forgot to fill up the gas tank and how they were stranded until some strangers saved their asses.



posted on Jul, 9 2011 @ 05:11 AM
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only dumb guys would compare a woman to a porn phantasy.

porn is the sexy face of the NWO.




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