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Originally posted by redmage
The fact of the matter is that guys enjoy seeing the nude female form in all shapes and sizes. You generally don't see obese women in "glamour mags", or hollywood blockbusters, yet the porn industry has categories devoted to just that. Why? Because there's a market out there, and there are men who will buy it. Likewise, there are categories for all body-types. Not all porn models/actresses are 38/22/36, and not all men are looking for that.
Women need to learn to be happy with themselves, and less cruel to one another. Honestly, it really doesn't matter what a woman looks like; there will always be a guy out there who thinks she looks absolutely perfect.
[edit on 8/5/08 by redmage]
Originally posted by RogerT
Another is that 'foreign' women are more in touch with their femininity than 'westernised feminists' who are often more like men in skirts than actual women
Originally posted by RogerT
The essence of woman is yin, which is yielding, soft, quiet, receding and nurturing. Western culture now requires the modern woman to be aggressive, 'successful', driven and competitive. these are yang qualities, more suited to the man.
1 Almost all the Gauls are of tall stature, fair and ruddy, terrible for the fierceness of their eyes, fond of quarrelling, and of overbearing insolence. In fact, a whole band of foreigners will be unable to cope with one of them in a fight, if he calls in his wife, stronger than he by far and with flashing eyes; least of all when she swells her neck and gnashes her teeth, and poising her huge white arms, proceeds to rain punches mingled with kicks, like shots discharged by the twisted cords of a catapult.
Originally posted by RogerT
Unfortunately, the feminist evolution has resulted in the emasculation of the male, and he is now taking on the yin qualities, perhaps as a balance. Now we are all confused and becoming androgenous - just like the fashion models we see daily on the bill boards.
Originally posted by RogerT
Perhaps this is evolution, but I suspect we do need a return of the goddess.
After all, god is feminine, I am sure of it.
26 ¶ And God said, Let us make man in our image, 1 Cor. 11.7 after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.
27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. Mt. 19.4 · Mk. 10.6
Not even nothing existed then
No air yet, nor a heaven.
Who encased and kept it where?
Was water in the darkness there?
Neither deathlessness nor decay
No, nor the rhythm of night and day:
The self-existent, with breath sans air:
That, and that alone was there.
Darkness was in darkness found
Like light-less water all around.
I will never forget a visit I made to Ilana, an old friend who had become an Orthodox Jew in Jerusalem. When I saw her again, she had abandoned her jeans and T-shirts for long skirts and a head scarf.
I could not get over it. Ilana has waist-length, wild and curly golden-blonde hair. “Can’t I even see your hair?” I asked, trying to find my old friend in there. “No,” she demurred quietly. “Only my husband,” she said with a calm sexual confidence, “ever gets to see my hair.”
She must feel, I thought, so hot.
Compare that steaminess with a conversation I had at Northwestern, after I had talked about the effect of porn on relationships. “Why have sex right away?” a boy with tousled hair and Bambi eyes was explaining.
“Things are always a little tense and uncomfortable when you just start seeing someone,” he said. “I prefer to have sex right away just to get it over with. You know it’s going to happen anyway, and it gets rid of the tension.”
“Isn’t the tension kind of fun?” I asked. “Doesn’t that also get rid of the mystery?”
“Mystery?” He looked at me blankly. And then, without hesitating, he replied: “I don’t know what you’re talking about. Sex has no mystery.”
Originally posted by _Phoenix_
Edit: oh yeah one of the best breast implants I've seen is Veronica zemanova one mmmmm. She already had big ones, but I heard she didn't eat a lot and got really skinny, and lost fat in that area, so she got implants.
Originally posted by sc2099
Yes, but what you need to realize is that these are fetishes, not mainstream pornography which is emulated and amalmagated into mainstream culture, i.e. magazines, movies and tv. Most people do not find BBW attractive, which is exactly why it is a fringe fetish, otherwise BBW would be mainstream porn.
Originally posted by sc2099
It's nice that you're so optimistic, but I think you need a reality check. If men liked to see average looking, normal looking, unairbrushed women, those are the women who would make up the male fantasy that is porn. But clearly that is not what they want to see because it's not what sells.
Originally posted by whatukno
Ah porn versus the real women.
Originally posted by Vasilis Azoth
I've bumped into her many times.
Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander
Originally posted by RogerT
Another is that 'foreign' women are more in touch with their femininity than 'westernised feminists' who are often more like men in skirts than actual women
... I grew up with kids whose mothers were Asian or Filipino nationals ... and their mothers were no more submissive around the house (far from it) than the American women. ...
Originally posted by sir_chancealotWomen, if your man likes to look at porn, odds are that you aren't keeping him satisfied in the bedroom.
Originally posted by sir_chancealot
Women, if your man likes to look at porn, odds are that you aren't keeping him satisfied in the bedroom. My wife (now deceased) put quality (and quantity!) sex before just about everything. In other words, WE were the most important thing in our marriage. Not the bills, not the (*GASP! SACRILEGE!*) kids, not the pets, not the chores. US. Because of her willingness and enthusiasm in the bedroom, I have no real desire to look at porn to this day. Think about that the next time you catch your man looking at porn.
Originally posted by sc2099
This is my favorite part of the article.
“Can’t I even see your hair?” I asked, trying to find my old friend in there. “No,” she demurred quietly. “Only my husband,” she said with a calm sexual confidence, “ever gets to see my hair.”
She must feel, I thought, so hot.
Originally posted by EverythingYouDespise
I don't see why this is a problem. Porn encourages women to be more desirable by raising the level of their competition.
Originally posted by sir_chancealot
Project much? Illionsaregrander didn't say ANYTHING about "submissive", he said "femininity". I wondered how long it would take before someone brought up the "men just think foreign women are submissive" argument.
Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander
Hiding your hair for a man's pleasure, to me, is no different than doing anything to please a man. I just dont think one should let someone else in anyway dictate the person that they are