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Originally posted by For(Home)Country
What a good thread, I am looking forward to seeing what all turns out here. As a male myself, I have a few of my own questions, mostly regarding attraction.
What do women like in men? Sometimes, you see women that go for big muscle men, and others that go for the small yet nice guy. Do women like it when guys care, or when men act like, well "men" as big, not caring and brute creatures, as portrayed by the media. Now, I'm not concerned with attracting women, as I already have a girlfriend (so I must be doing something right ) but in the end, it's kind of confusing as to what women like.
Big muscle and no feelings,
or slender and caring?
Just wondering.
Originally posted by seagrass
I think in some women there is a challenge factor. If you could only tame that man, it would say you were "special" somehow. That you had something that only he wanted. If all the other women are also interested in him, then you won.
It's true. So what is your point?
Originally posted by intrepid
It's easy. Men are from Mars and women are from Walmart.
What's the deal with the shopping thing? My wife CAN'T go into a store and buy ONE ITEM. I even made a bet with her once when she said that she was going into the store for......... I don't remember but it was one thing. She lost. Came out with 2 handsfull of bags. Men don't shop, we purchase.
Originally posted by seagrass
Women do like to be flattered.
Hey! come here and I'll show ya.
Originally posted by intrepid
Originally posted by seagrass
Women do like to be flattered.
Hey baby, what's happening?
Another thing, what's with the shoes?
I disagree with this, primarily the negative part.
Emotional responses even negative ones are what women need to be happy.
yes! but the solutions are more welcomed once we are allowed to vent.
Originally posted by intrepid
reply to post by seagrass
I see what you're saying. It's about "venting". With men it's about "solving the problem". That's how WE are wired. I learned a long time ago that when my wife wants to vent, listen. That's what she wants. Not solutions.
Women who are highly sexual can be called whores if they are not careful. Reputation is important to some of these women, so you would never know by their outward appearance. Some show it, some just act like they are to attract a man, when they aren't.
Originally posted by daddyroo45
From what I have gathered over the years,women are far more sexual than their male counterparts.Although women seem demure and taken aback by sexual connotations,they are actually the seething,firey embodiment of sexual passion. In situations where coupled relationships allow multiple partners the women are more apt to frequently engage multiple male partners.While the males usually limit themselves to one extraintimate partner,then attend to their spouse/partners desires.
My question is: (This is to all the women posting here) Would you be more open to experimentation if you knew your spouse/partner supported the experience?
Originally posted by daddyroo45
My question is: (This is to all the women posting here) Would you be more open to experimentation if you knew your spouse/partner supported the experience?
Are you talking to me here? Are you saying I have a low IQ and don't even realize it because I am making some generalizations about women? It takes a lot of details to make a big picture. This problem is being dissected by it's details. I am just giving my opinion on women, and so are a few others in an attempt to breed understanding. I never said all women are this way. I agree people are unique. But there are some common threads among the sexes that I have seen. To deny that talking and having a conversation could help, and is just a waste of pointless time, is a waste of this threads time... you can always just scroll on by.
Originally posted by Interestinggg
I find it pointless to discuss the differences between men and women in the sense that every single woman is different than every single man in a certain way.
Because apart from the physical differences, which are plainly obvious and not worthy of any continuing debate.
You would have to meet every single man and woman to be able to say things in general about all of them.
People who say women are this men are that etc etc, I find to be a waste of my short time here on earth.
As they are illogical and have low iq's and aren't able to think about the bigger picture very much.
In fact they are so illogical they don't even realize its a possibility that they could be that way, and hardly ever even realize what they are saying or even what it means.
Its impossible to explain to them in any meaningful sense that, its not about men, women, dna, culture, underwear color, big toe size, its about every living thing being totally unique.Its about PEOPLE.