Originally posted by lost in the midwest
[When you are too stupid to know that you can't afford the loan and take it anyway, you are to blame. .... This country is being destoryed by non-tax
paying bums and rich greedy business men. Us working stiffs are being left with the tab.
Ok not everyone who is caught up in this is stupid. Not everyone in this mess are non tax paying bums.
When we took out our mortgage 2.5 years ago we had more than enough to make ends meet and get ahead. What we weren't able to foresee was the drastic
rise in gas and consumable prices. Now when those hit times started getting tight. We went back to the mortgage companies after a year to refinance
(like we were advised). Yes we had an arm. It was our first home, our dreams, our hope.
Well the equity in the home was not there. So the bank refused to refi.
We started feeling the pich because the extra monthly income was being whittled away by the rise in cost of everything else. Well to shorten this
so people don't get bore just monthly expenses alone rose over $600, Then the rate adjusted. That rose our monthly expenses by another $500 a month.
That started the down ward spiral. You do what you can to get by. Not always being able to think logically because you are panicking. You take out a
few payday loans because you are behind on payments and can't get regular loans. Those just kill ya. Now we are facing foreclosure, losing a vehilce
and what ever else comes along.
We have tried working with the banks. They say there is nothing they can do. We have tried working with foreclosure assistance programs ($2500) to
them to start. They say you need $3000 more and then come up with another $2000-$3000 ion the next 2 weeks and the bank will work with us. Well that
$2500 came from the cars( behind on those now). If I had the extra thousands laying around I wouldn't be behind on payments.
My Point is, not everyone caught in this mess is stupid or ignorant. We got caught unaware and unprepared for what the last 2 1/2 years has brought.
Now if you can look into your little crystal ball and tell me what it is going to be like 2 1/2 years from now, then I will give you all the credit in
the worl. Unfortunately just like everyone else ,we cannot predict the future. So before you go slamming and putting down your fellow citizens and
fellow posters here on ATS you may want to look at all sides of the scenario and be cautios with the name calling and labeling. You never know.....2
1/2 years from now you may find yourself in a predicament you didn't see coming and then someone might be labeling you stupid and ignorant. It won't
be me. Because I have been there and I will understand. Compassion is a great thing. We are not looking for sympathy. Just understanding and patience.