reply to post by special
do i think its made a difference?
yes...in my life it has
I think everybody wants to feel some sense of community...
Outing myself this way just introduce's me in one foul swoop(for want of a better expression)
subtlety has never been one of my strong points...; )
i guess i view this as an experiment...thinks to self...lets see what happens if i do this?]
so your answer to the question "has it made a difference?"
yes...my lifes a bit different because of my actions.....
But I do get a real kick out of all of all of this......
I find all aspects of this interesting
Ats.........amazing site full of amazing info...brilliant minds and scholarly research on a
subject thats very often dissmissed as hog wash for mentalist....
Iam that mentalist and i love it!
Then theres the way that people interact with each other here..its fascinating...
All sorts of human life getting together and thrashing out the truth....
you have the combatives,the submissives, the apologists, The mother/father earth types, the loving,the hateful, the unwell (and iam not above your
suspisions in this catagory..but then again neither is anybody else here)..
I say that because most people here presume that there opinion about themselves
is cast iron....
IAM RIGHT YOU ARE WRONG kind of thing....
Maybe iam here for egocentric reasons and i have to take a look at that as well...
So thankyou all for every post ..the good the bad the indifferent...If you stop questioning your own motives..you don't have a very firm base to go
from...and your helping me to question myself....
As for the ""You don't have to justify your self posts''
Thankyou for those too....but as you can see..this is a site for debate(i know that)
What would be the point of not debating?
Sure some peoples opinions do stick in my craw...
But you have to review them so you can review yourself...
I think that is the point of a debate right?
Its reality tv for a subject i have great affection for......
Even if a thread falls on its face here....you always go away with either
Info you did'nt have or entertainment from a bitchy fight that decends into chaos....
both are enlightening...both very entertaining