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Originally posted by forthepeople
Hmm so you think you are worth more?
Sometimes people have a right to complain and you can do something about it while complaining.
So if whoever you worked for tomm told you your salary was gonna be cut in half would you complain any? If they found someone to replace you for some reason would you then complain?
Does speaking out againist something that is not fair = complaining?
Originally posted by proof_tracey
I also appreciate the not so kind words because it is people like you that make me want to push a little harder.
Let me say that I am *not* asking for the government to bail me out nor am I waiting for a hand out. If that were the case I would have applied for and received government assistance.
I am saying loud and clear that I do not agree with the way the government chooses to run this country.
To just*mama* or whatever your name is. I was tired when I posted, forgive me for not speaking ever so eloquently, I tend to be myself when posting in forums.
Originally posted by VitriolAndAngst
My brother got involved with drugs at his high school. Instead of going to prison, he went to therapy. He now manages 100+ people and makes over $250K. WE have both gone through depression. I'd say we can thank FORTUNE and our place in this world a lot more than hard work. And some people do NOT know how to get ahead -- it is a skill and it is networking. If you didn't get born in the right family -- chances are you will never get it.
You seem to not get the point about hard-working people in third-world countries. The thing that allows hard work to pay off -- is all the damn Liberal institutions that you and your ilk take for granted and want to destroy. That tough love crap didn't work for the entire length of human history -- but that doesn't stop people from still using it. Wow, I guess the Dark Ages, Slavery and Serfdom must have been a panacea -- no lazy people, why did anyone decide that we needed America to be free in the first place? We just created a haven for laziness.
Good for you, not raising lazy kids. People every day accomplish this amazing feat behind the safety of a white picket fence, and grew up without the sort of questions in life that distract from a good paying job. I don't want to speculate, but I've known a lot of church-going people who have these huge networks of support. They think all the worlds problems would be solved if everyone were like them. The world cannot support the number of wasteful, hypocritical, SUV-driving Christians as it is. The callousness towards the environment, towards the unfortunate, and the head-in-the sand concept that Charities and begging can solve any of these huge problems fits hand-in-glove with the White-Picket-Fence Christo-fascists in this country.
I'm not saying we don't have a problem with culture, where people are always looking for an excuse. But as successful people in America, WE cannot be whining about our responsibility to help others succeed just because people abuse it. America was doing a lot better economically, when we were treating the people at the bottom better. I'd be happy if they never had to work. Because I don't worry about people getting something for free. I worry about the wealthy taking everything and making me fight over the scraps.
NOBODY is helped by crass people who put them down. Some people need a dream as a way to get by when the don't have energy to play with their kids. I don't know, with the diets we have, if more of us aren't just losing all our energy to begin with. Nobody has been helped by tough-love talks, only the conscience of the self-satisfied who never cared about anybody but #1 anyway.
A single mother is NOT going to get ahead in this country unless they are EXTREMELY lucky. For a thousand that make it, a million did not.
Free healthcare and free education and maybe someplace to leave the kids that isn't a car and maybe we can talk again about getting rid of welfare -- but until then, I'd support 3 times more for people than for bombs.
Originally posted by VitriolAndAngst
reply to post by justamomma
Wait, you were just saying to her "forget making a living writing,"
And now you are telling her that she will succeed because she doesn't want a handout and can make it if she tries harder.
Originally posted by VitriolAndAngst
I knew a guy from Mexico who did some work for my dad. I asked him, if he wouldn't want to learn carpentry -- he said that digging ditches always made him money, so why learn more? That was refusing to figure out -- but his stubbornness is what also helped him to survive. But there is always going to be a limited number of people who can figure out enough to get ahead.
Poor health, economic insecurity, and low education create people who will be angry and less educated. Stress in mothers produces more stress hormones, which have been shown to affect the brains of babies. So, the mothers at the short end of the stick will have more violent and less intelligent kids, and the people at the good end of the stick will listen to Experts who explain that these people are lazy and stupid.
It will never be solved because the stress of being poor makes people destined to be poor.
Originally posted by forthepeople
I bet she lives in a single wide and drives a kia She is a pompus ass that justamomma
[edit on 28-7-2008 by forthepeople]
Originally posted by forthepeople
And those people work for their $6.55 it isnt handed to them.
Originally posted by VitriolAndAngst
Sorry about the "ilk" comment. You certainly are one of the people who boot-strapped, and not the white-picket-fence type.
The problem is, you sound EXACTLY like the white-picket-fence people who don't give a damn. You might help people and that is great. You might blame nobody and teach your kids to strive to be better -- that is a winning attitude.
But to get ahead at work, I find you have to adapt the attitude and world-view of the boss.
The poor nations that people leave behind, and come to America to escape, have EVERYONE, thinking that poor people are lazy.
That's what I meant when I said; "your ilk." You've adopted the belief system of the people who create these problems as well. You are totally not getting what I am saying. You adopting a 'can do" attitude is absolutely fine. You not understanding why we should have Universal Healthcare and social safety nets, is a belief system that is promoted by the Robber Barons.
I look at people like Clarence Thomas, and they have adopted the mean spirit of the people who used to keep people like him down. There is a great middle ground and I think you should listen to some of Obama's speeches on that matter. We can ask people to have personal responsibility without forgetting our duty to help them out.
I'm not "whining" about minimum wage because I'm not in that boat. I'm pretty angry at the whiners who think THEY are going to be hurt by helping out the little guy. Unless you are making that money on the Nikes shoes that get built for $1 -- YOU are not going to be hurt by increasing money going to labor.
But, you don't have to figure out economics to get promoted in this economy. It really helps if you think and talk the right way, however. It's also a good way to make friends with Republicans, is to adopt their way of thinking. Become one of the "safe" people who think right. Collin Powell was a good soldier and did what his commander told him to do. And held up a little white powder at the UN and lied about Iraq.
So much is stolen at the top in this country -- and this crime is covered up by a debate about $.70 more for the people at the bottom. Your story is compelling and uplifting and I don't take away from that. But your story shouldn't also be a cop-out for keeping the system the way it is.
I wouldn't mind living in some of those Socialist countries --- but it is a LOT harder to get in to them than it is the USA. That should tell you something.