posted on Jul, 23 2008 @ 01:57 PM
In reading this thread again, i couldnt help wondering why theres such a rash of people who feel they dont belong here.
Are we supposed to be here by popular demand? I wouldnt be here then.
Maybe i just have the gift of not really caring, being an Aquarian and all, but i never really give that much thought. Are we here to be loved?
Are we here for approval of ourselves and our personalities?
Antar, you must realize that friends and approvals are all great, but we have to learn to separate our real lives from ATS.
You have friends and family who love you, as do i. I know we can really get into this place, and as for me, i've had my feelings hurt too. But we
have to be realistic, you know?
I'm sorry but i think we and many lately are keeping this place too close to our hearts, way too close, to the point where some of us actually sit
here and think, "Gee, so and so was mean, gee, i havent heard from so and so, and the ever proverbial question:
BET THEY'RE SAYING # ABOUT ME ON U2U'S!!!!! and they are, but we cant let that bother us....
These are just some thoughts i have today on threads related to people
who arent sure if they belong or not.
As many years as i've been here, i havent thought of anyone not belonging here.
Each of us have our own personalities, each of us are special.
Let them talk.
This, Antar, is in no way meant to put you down in your feelings, but just a general comment across the board, because some people HAVE left over the
years because they felt inadequate.
That should not be the case.