posted on Jul, 17 2008 @ 02:45 AM
Originally posted by rapinbatsisaltherage
Men have women figured out, women have men figured out.
I respectfully disagree. I’ve dated plenty who didn’t know squat about women, even a man in his twenties who thought female orgasms were a
When a woman wants something, she takes 37 steps and 5 arguments to get it.
When a man wants something, he just goes to the store and buys it.
I find this statement a little offensive, because you group all men together, you group all women together, and your generalization about women makes
them sound more complicated than men. There are plenty of female/male relationships where men fit that description you gear towards women and where
women fit the description you gear towards men. You yourself are only fueling misconceptions.
[edit on 16-7-2008 by rapinbatsisaltherage]
An assumption here: Upon reading your responses here and on other threads, I think you are very intellectual and you attempt to explore every angle
possible. What I also observe is a very "politically" correct sensibility that appears to be natural and intrinsic to your nature. Unfortunately
most of us are not as "advanced" and sensitive as you seem to be.
Your frustration is obvious but remember the causality exists in a realm in which you have no control.
I myself have witnessed some very base thinking, sociopathic hatred, blind patriotism, cold skepticism, various cultural prospectives and very
occasionally agenda free exchange of ideas.
I constantly revert to the belief that logic, reason and understanding will assist in the total rehabilitation of minds marred with intolerance
and ignorance. Unfortunately I see that this is hardly the case. In pursuit of this ideal I regularly feel trapped by the mentalities that surround
Recently I have come to the stark realization that one can only reason with a person so much. There is in fact a point where the discussion seems
to apex based upon the totality of the other participant.
Okay, so you feel offended that a person implied a belief that women are more complicated then men. First off I think this was a simple
generalization on behalf of the poster. However this was purely the verbal medium that this person used to convey "its" opinion on the matter.
Unfortunately this entire discussion is on a topic that cannot
be concluded with any certainty.
I myself often "think" that women can be more complex then men, emotionally speaking. I say this because of my experiences and observation of a
lifetime. Further more I believe that the HUMAN MINDS of the two sexes operate differently in sexual regards. All I have to go on is my experience -
my eyes, ears and perceptions.
In saying this it seems that you assign negative values to concepts of distinction. But I say to you, that reality would a singularity of total
chaos without the human construct of