posted on Jul, 15 2008 @ 01:48 PM
As I have mentioned many times on this board, I am fat. Also, before I had my daughter, I was skinny but I have always been big boned. Even when I
was 120 pounds, I couldn't get below a size 10 and at that skinny, I had people calling me anorexic and telling me to go eat a cheeseburger.
Which is why I think Richies size 9 and below comment is funny. Fat or not, bone structure is different and whether fat or skinny, big hips equals
But I have no problem with people who aren't attracted to fat people. That is a personal choice and everyone is attracted to different things. What
I have a problem with is when people go beyond "not dating" fat people into making fun of and critisizing every fat person they see.
I also, as a fat girl, can't stand chubby chasers. I have came accross many of them and it seems that most of them only care about the fact that I
am big and after a date or two, I realize they care nothing about my personality or who I am inside, they are just wanting to get me in the sack
because they are into big girls. It's just like guys who are into model-like chicks only, they seem to only care about her body and then get mad
when she turns out to be a total witch.
But I will tell you this. Everytime I personally have thought I wasn't attracted to a certain type of person, someone who fit that type of person
has came my way and I found myself totally attracted to them. I feel that if you are limiting yourself to a certain "type" you are really limiting
yourself and you are missing out on many things.
But I do not find it offensive to not date fat chicks.
[edit on 15-7-2008 by snowflake_obsidian]