Originally posted by liamoohay
Well you already pointed out you do not want kids.
So.... hmmmmm... I would say you goto your local store find the condom section....buy some (don't forget lube)..... call her up, and, since you both
have mutual feelings it seems spend some quality fun time together.
Wait your going to have to get off your computer first.
I believe you have pretty much skipped the entire thread altogether, as it's evidenced by your lack of understanding of any of the relevant facts
whatsoever. I am not interested in her, in the least, and especially not with a co-worker.
reply to post by dgtempe
dgtempe, I feel very much for you in this instance. I have been stalked off and on since I was age six, so I fully understand everything you have had
to say here.
This wasn't even one of the facets of this discussion I had brought into the mix yet, and thank you for bringing it to the table with your
perspective, even though I am sure you hated that it happened, your story may help others.
I never, never ever mix sex with a work place, ever. It's asking for trouble.
There's a phrase I use to explain this :
Never crap in the bowl you eat from.
That means, if you don't want a bad taste, don't eat from it. Relationships and their dynamics always fluctuate, and due to immature people at work,
people being petty and jealous, and even malicious people with intent to destroy other people's happiness because of their lack of happiness, makes a
"working relationship" difficult, let alone "friends with benefits" with a co-worker.
Just so everyone knows, I have petitioned to get this thread moved back to Philosophy/Psychology/Metaphysics, as it was originally about the
philosophy and psychology behind this woman's motivations, but because of dgtempe's one post, I may reconsider that petition, because I may just be
able to help some people here in BTS I had not considered reaching out to previously.
I had at one time had a Forum that I created to help people help themselves based on this very type of particular type of event, because I am an
amatuer counselor, but due to lacking funding, and some other things, I shut it down. I had thirty members, and that was it, but it was great with the
intent I had in helping people.
If anyone ever feels the need for a shoulder, please feel free to U2U, and I will respond as quickly as possible.