Originally posted by dgtempe
I would just flat out recommend that she attends a family gathering, and hit on a cousin or uncle.
Another thing? Have you said a flat NO?? Does she get mixed messages from you? I know you are clear here, but in person, are you getting thru?
[edit on 13-7-2008 by dgtempe]
I told her no, flatly.
She asked why not, I stated I don't want to be a father.
She stated there was no financial obligations, I still said no.
She then asked why I do not want to be a sperm donor, I stated that if I have a child, I want to be there for the child in all ways, as I come from a
broken home and understand fully not having My father there, and having a step-father instead when I wanted it the other way around. I have since
changed that view altogether as the father was more interested in laying in the bottom of an alcohol bottle than being a part of his family. He was,
is, and always will be a complete stranger to Me.
She asked jokingly if that meant I wanted to move in, I said a flat no.
She offered that I could be there in all ways for the child, I still stated no.
her every offer, and she still kept on pushing.
I also stated I already have 2 Cub Scout Packs, and a Boy Scout Troop, a bunch of young men who look up to Me in all ways, I do not need nor want My
No mixed signals, whatsoever.
She tried the coy batting her eyelashes bit to warm up the horny single man as well, it just doesn't come across that well from a woman like her,
she'd make a great Drill Sergeant in the Military before a mother.
I don't play baloney games when it comes to sex, either you're interested, or not.
I can do "friends with benefits" it just is not that big a deal to Me, I even have had many offers recently before this woman, but due to it being
co-workers to the connections that would be influenced because of it, I said no way.
I waited until I was 20/21 to have sex the very first time, so turning down sex is not a big deal for Me, at all.
[edit on 13-7-2008 by SpartanKingLeonidas]