Originally posted by mr. wildflowers
I would tell her to try showing it love, but how exactly do you go about showing a demon "love?" I'm guessing flowers and chocolates won't do the
trick 


Yeah - I'm picking the flowers and chocolates or a nice homecooked meal might be off the agenda.
How do you show love to a demon? Same way you show love to anyone or anything else. Love is an emotion/energy that isn't dependent upon the reciever
- rather it rests within the sender.
Despite the burden this entity has been, despite the negativity and/or chaos it has bought to her life...we are all certainly capable of showing love,
of feeling love, even for our darkest of enemies.
She could focus her intention into her thoughts as she goes through her processes...consciously and deliberately thinking something like: "I forgive
you with love, I send you love, I wish you nothing but peace. Go in love, go with forgiveness, go in peace"
Its that conscious change in direction - in focus - that can be so powerful. Its like switching your game-plan mid-game. It is of course likely the
demon would rebuke such a show of love for it, for it is something foriegn to it...but the action and intent still stands. It is a clear show to it
that it cannot and will not any longer hold power over her - manipulate and play her.
Once that line is drawn in the sand then it can try and rage all it likes...but it will be blustering without effect...as long as she holds firm to
that purity of love, forgiveness, compassion. To harbour ill-will for it is to give over her own power to it.
By giving it all over, all the ill it has done, all the pain/fear it has caused...by giving that over to (again - this will sound sooo cliche) 'to
the Light' (*insert whatever belief/definition you hold to*) she also in essence removes herself from the game. And it IS a game these things
play...yes they can impart the impression that its a game of high stakes and a game you have no choice but to play...but that is all the mindtricks
and tactics of their game. Don't play it. Choice ALWAYS remains. CHOOSE not to play it...choose instead to give it over...give it over to a far
greater power. There comes the safety, there comes the coverage.
One of these things greatest ploys is to instill some belief within the person that its an 'Us Vs Them' interaction...pitching the *battle* at a
personal/individual level. Don't buy into those tactics...do not personalise it, externalise it...give it over...
JungianQueen: I've asked Sid several times, and Nancy has NEVER been involved in anything her grandfather forced her mother to
witness
...theres a whole new kettle of fish there. Its one that is related yes...but somewhat different.
Apologies - I have to actually do some work

Heh...surfing the net while at work...so will return to this later.
Peace.