Originally posted by jsobecky
reply to post by justamomma
Originally posted by justamomma
you were lucky (blessed, however you choose to word it) THIS time, but will you be the next time? and there is the problem!!
[edit on 26-6-2008 by justamomma]
The same could be said about playing Russian Roulette.
Maybe the solution is to stop playing games where your luck will eventually run out?
i don\'t play the games. my kids having a mother is more important than practicing what i believe is my God given right to smoke a little M. i take
very seriously the fact that should i screw up in one aspect of my life the authorities will be there to \"straighten\" me out and may even decide
that God made a mistake when giving me my children.
i take it VERY seriously!! and i don\'t put myself in positions where should my luck run out, i could be screwed up the arse. but i will continue to
speak out about your right, the right of others, and my right to choose for ourselves what goes in our bodies.
it is ridiculous that i am a 31 year old who has to listen to \"mommy and daddy\" america about what is and isn\'t good for me and that i am
punished or worse, my kids could be punished should i do something they don\'t approve of.
maybe that is our underlying issue. we wait all our childhood to become adults and decide for ourselves what is or isn\'t right for us, only to get
to adulthood and find that we are still having to answer to someone about our personal well being.
how the hell is it gonna affect the public in a negative way if i choose not to wear my seat belt when driving up the road to a friend\'s house?
yeah, should i get in a wreck, i may die... but this is my life, not yours and certainly not the governments.
way back when my ex and i first got married (before we had kids), we used to smoke a j when we\'d get off work to unwind and relax. we were both
working hard from the bottom as most young couples do and this helped us both shake off the stresses of work, we\'d cook together, play card games,
laugh, and do what young couples do. we weren\'t harming anyone.
BUT then we have a son and we suddenly realize that, even though this was a harmless, even helpful way of us dealing w/ stress, we let the smoking
go..... because we were responsible and didn\'t want to risk losing our child. It ended up better common sense that I stay home w/ the baby instead
of working merely to pay for child care and thus we ended up on one income. i am still eternally grateful to my ex for making the sacrifices he did by
working so hard so i could stay home. he loved his family.
but the stress of it started to get to him. he wasn\'t allowed to do something that was harmless when got home from the stressful day at work bc it
is illegal. so, he turned to something that IS legal yet extremely harmful and ended up being the catalyst in the falling apart of our marriage.......
good ol\' alcohol!! my husband became an alcoholic! and the government was fine w/ this, even when it the effects only agitated his stress rather
than helping to ease it away.
sure, he must and has and will have to take personal responsibility for his mistakes, but i watched the man i loved and still love fall apart on
something that is legal (and should be legal) while he was prohibited from turning to something that actually helped him relax w/out the harmful side
affects. yet the better of the two is illegal and the one that is a contributor to more deaths is legal.
it doesn\'t make sense to me. do i smoke? no, i love my kids and bc there IS that freedom they have taken away, i don\'t choose to risk it.
i can\'t make sense in my head why two ppl of the same sex would want to be together when it is unnatural (IMO), but GD, i would not dare impose
upon them a law that says they don\'t have that right. they aren\'t hurting me by whatever it is they are doing in their bedroom and so what if
they want to get married? hell, going through a divorce w/ two kids showed me real quick how much this country doesn\'t give a # about the
institution of marriage and how quickly they are there to take your money and help your family be ripped apart..... i say for those opposed to gay
marriage, LET EM MARRY and chances are, they won\'t be so \"in your face\" w their lifestyle anymore. they will find out in this country,
marriage is a joke and there are so many laws and regulations put in place to tear apart even the strongest of couples.
i just watched a segment of cnn this morning and (no joke, literally) wanted to puke when they had a woman on (who wasn\'t even from this country,
but here as an exchange student) who had been a victim of the va tech shooting. sad, sure.. she had been shot in the head and the bullet is still
lodged somewhere around her brain (and obviously that bullet not only is affecting her rightness of my mind, but that magic bullet was affecting the
rightness of mind for those who interviewed and aired her point of view......... some bullet). point is, this foreigner (yeah, i said foreigner and w/
no ill intent toward her personally) is speaking out against our rights to bear arms and is being allowed to do so. she even made the ludicrous
statement that should she have had a gun, she would have probably been dead. so not having a gun saved her life. HUH?

as i said, SOME BULLET!!
who the heck cares what she thinks? she goes back to her country and i am still here w/ two kids and i would rather take my chances having a gun to
defend my boys should someone break into my home.
THIS PICTURE DOESN\'T MAKE SENSE!!! this isn\'t about if i smoke or don\'t smoke. it isn\'t about if you smoke or don\'t smoke. it isn\'t
about if gays are wrong when they claim to be in love or if they are right. it isn\'t about whether wearing my seatbelt will or won\'t save my
life.
each and every human, not ONLY in america, but in every liveable and unliveable place on this planet DESERVES the right to pursue their own personal
happinesses so long as that happiness does not interfere w/ another persons right to pursue their happiness.
no doubt there are those who have say so over us who don't give a second thought to pursuing their lifestyles that make them happy. but now their
pursuits are infringing on my right to my pursuits and your rights.
[edit on 26-6-2008 by justamomma]