posted on Jun, 13 2008 @ 06:27 AM
Putting aside the fact that they would not have personality and a soul and therefore wouldn't really be "human", I wouldn't do it. I think for
most of us, debate, differing viewpoints and the occasional arguement are what makes our relationships as strong as they are.
As much as it sounds wonderful to have the "perfect" mate, I would think it would get boring if you always agreed, never had the opportunity to
argue and keep an open mind. My husband and I are pretty much as close to opposites as they come...and I honestly wouldn't say in hindsight that
we're "perfect" for each other. But over the years, we've come to appreciate each others differences. We've argued, debated, and even had some
all out yelling matches over the years....and, most of the time we've left compromising and/or agreeing to disagree. It makes for great conversation
and a stronger relationship I feel.
Our kids each have a little of both of us in them, making them also have different views and opinions than we ourselves have. It's what makes
everyone's family so unique and different from everyone else.
On a side note...we have a family living close to us that everyone in the neighbourhood calls "the plastic people" LOL They NEVER fight, always
agree, really are perfect for each other. It's very amusing to watch. "would you like steak for dinner tonight honey?" "why yes darling, I'd
LOVE steak!" To me it's just a very boring existence if there's never debate and confrontation...hmmm maybe I need counselling LOL