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What am I doing wrong?

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posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 05:26 PM
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Well, I've been trying and trying to be accepted by the people of BTS, but I never seem to get noticed by people. Half the time I post things, they don't get many replies, and I have no idea why. As soon as someone who is "accepted" by the BTS crowd posts something, replies are up within minutes...

I want to know why?
What does it take to get into the clique of people here in BTS?
I'll do whatever's needed...I just want to feel accepted!!!

lol seriously, though, if you have any idea or if you're in the clique yourself...please let me know. Thanks!

[edited for spelling]

[edit on 9-6-2008 by louiekid333]




posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 05:35 PM
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you have to lay naked in a coffin and masturbate.



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 05:37 PM
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reply to post by louiekid333
 


your never not accepted on ATS/BTS

give it time and you find that out



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 05:40 PM
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Create your own clique dude...

Or just stand alone

sometimes you have to catch peoples eye, or whatever. I wouldn't worry about it too much. you're good stuff in my book.



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 05:41 PM
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Oh and launch your comments on your profile





posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 06:16 PM
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reply to post by eye open doors
 


What should I put in the welcome thingy?



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 06:26 PM
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What do you want to put in there? Do your thing man, do it from the heart.



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 06:32 PM
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Louie...

It takes a while to get your name 'recognized'...

Realy dont worry about it.

If you want to have some fun, worthless discution, click on the Chat Icon Up on the toolbar...

THere are ussaly half a dozen people in there... you can talk to them...

Yell at them to go to your threads... anything you want...


Plus, trust me, when you have a goood thread, people will go to it, more people then you want will go to it... infact, proably 50% of the posts will be worthless... but... at least the thread will be popular.... right..



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 06:49 PM
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Just be yourself and don't bend over backwards to please anyone. I agree that
Chat would be a very good idea for you.



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 06:53 PM
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Your first problem is worrying what others think of you. Trying too hard can be a bad thing. Just go with the flow. And like another said above...create your own clique....don't be a follower man. Be a leader.
Be yourself. And PLEASE don't conform to fit in with others. They should like you for who you are.

[edit on 6/9/2008 by Mad_Hatter]



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 08:08 PM
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ok, you guys said to do chat, but I still need 23 more posts before I can, so I'll be there eventually...

And I really don't know anything about cliques.
I just like to use the word!!!



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 08:29 PM
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Originally posted by louiekid333
ok, you guys said to do chat, but I still need 23 more posts before I can, so I'll be there eventually...

And I really don't know anything about cliques.
I just like to use the word!!!


Simply look around at any threads that might interest you and reply to them. Don't try to make it to that 200 post mark all at once. That'll lead to a lot of brain scorch. Try not to worry about things too much. The important thing is to have fun, be yourself, and the other things will come naturally.



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 08:41 PM
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Hey louiekid. Well, I know most of my posts are being ignored.
But that's ok, I'll keep on posting anyways. They like me for my beautiful avatar and charming sense of humor though. HEHEHE

But really, no worries. Just keep doing what you're doing. Get your profile and comment section up and running. It took quite awhile for me to really start connecting with other members, now I just stalk them. mwahahaha I started posting in ATS, and still do a little, but found that I can be myself more in BTS, it's a great place to get to know the others.

Just enjoy yourself!

Rush





[edit on 9-6-2008 by hsur2112]



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 10:28 PM
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lol DW man, just cos people dont respond to your posts like they do to the posts of others doesnt mean you arnt accepted. You'll get there eventualy so try not to worry too much.



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 10:33 PM
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Oh realy...

I didnt know that there was a number of posts you have to join the Chat...

Thats strange...



posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 10:37 PM
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Did you have to look up a similar word to clique in the thesaurus and then look it up in the dictionary to know what it meant?



posted on Jun, 10 2008 @ 09:18 AM
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Originally posted by TKainZero
Oh realy...

I didnt know that there was a number of posts you have to join the Chat...

Thats strange...


Yes it's true. You need to have a minimum of 200 posts to join chat due to past abuses.



posted on Jun, 10 2008 @ 09:59 AM
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Originally posted by AccessDenied
Just be yourself and don't bend over backwards to please anyone. I agree that
Chat would be a very good idea for you.



bending over backwards on ATS may cause some serious damage
sorry i couldnt resist



posted on Jun, 10 2008 @ 11:05 AM
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Don't worry about people not responding to your posts. There was a time when I would come on here all day and have a nice solid thread (or so I thought) and nobody would reply. I think most of it is I mainly stay on BTS and try to kick back. Instead of making new threads I only look for ones that catch my eye and post in them. You really do need to get in chat, I have met many wonderful friends in there.



posted on Jun, 10 2008 @ 06:43 PM
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I guess I'll try chat once I get enough posts...
I only need like 19 more after this one!
Hope to see you all there eventually



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