posted on Jun, 9 2008 @ 09:45 AM
I think you already know the answer to your unasked question.
I've been down this road, it takes two to make it work and only one to destroy it.
If you two can not deal with this together, then I think you know the next step.
Sometimes the decisions we can make seem to be the worst possible answer we could choose. Or so it seems and feels, I can only speak for my self here,
but I divorced over 20 years ago, broke my heart back then. I thought I screwed my life up royally. Time went on and for the last 18 odd years I
think I made the right choice, I talk and get along better with my X than I did when married, and I'm very sure I would not have such a close
relationship with my son as I do now.
In the end it comes down to loving and wanting the best for your children.
In your heart you have the answer, we can only confirm or disagree, with the decision you have already made.
Take care my friend, stand strong and teach your children well.
P.S. I do hope you can both can work it out.