reply to post by budski
i am always very happy when i get to know to cases like yours and the one of your friend.
and gladly society is changing - slowly but steady.
i guess the tradional female roles also blures a little bit throughout the years, but the mills are grinding much more slowly in this case. maybe
because women tend to live under so calles double pressure, fullfilling their role in society, working in a job or getting a good education, and than
also fullfilling their role at home. some still belive it has to be this way.
even if they don.t belive it, it is sometimes very hard to cope with the partner to blur the schemes during a relationship.
i never had had a problem if a partner got a better job or made more money or got more knowledge, or if it had me to be in this position.
but i had to learn that my ex partner got problems with it. so huge and tremendous problems, that we had to split.
he grew up in a family where it was common for women to work, but only in a partner supporting position.
bud, i really wonder why people are threadend by the success of women.
even other women are threadend by it.
to tell you a more personall story, a girl i know told me that it would be very difficult for me to find a new partner since i would demand so much of
a guy. these demands are to take me the way i am: unique haircolor aside of mainstream tradiotions, being self-employed, single mom, intelligent
another friend adviced to pretend to be kind of stupid to attract a man, coz men wouldn.t be able to stand women who are more intelligent than
is that true?
is therefore the internet a kind of safe harbour where you can be the way you are or want to be?
these women are of our generation between 35 to 50 years old, which is amazing,
my mom is much more liberal than these ladies!
although it was an accident i like your opening!
[edit on 13-12-2008 by orange-light]