Originally posted by Mad_Hatter
These dudes problems are that they are not happy with themselves. I don't think their problem would be solved if they had a woman, they just think
it would. Their problems start from within. A previous poster hit the nail on the head....if you can't look at yourself, be honest with yourself,
and respect yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? To the giant dude in the red koolaid suit in the video...if he really cared about himself,
he would realize his current physical condition is not healthy and he would go to the gym and better himself. Women are attracted to guys that are in
charge of their own lives and have everything under control...as well as their sincerity and kindness. Maybe them not having a significant other is
natures way of telling them that they are not ready for one because they can't care for themselves properly.
I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. The third video from the op really just shows me a guy who maybe came off a bad breakup. While
I understand there are plenty of women that fit his description, there are just as many that don't. I liked one of his latest videos, (
) because he looks like at least he is making an effort to meet good women. People tend to let certain
events (especially relationships) dictate their lives when they are deeply emotionally affected by them.
I have mixed feelings on the matter. I just came up off of a rough break up myself. After 3 years, and losing some friends, I really thought she
was the one. Rather than coming up with excuses for what happened, I've learned to just accept it as it is. Being rejected is a part of life. How
you act when you are down and out can show what type of person you really are. Instead of seeing it as a set back, I'm trying to see it as a new
The way I see it, the world is what it is today because of men trying to get that perfect woman. Maybe not so much recently, but the same instincts
are still there. Men feel they need to impress women to get them interested, which is perfectly normal. It's the men that don't
improve themselves that cry about this stuff. You should always aspire to be a better person. Being without a relationship is a way to instill this
thought in us to keep us progressing IMO.
[edit on 6/11/08 by AcesInTheHole]