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Originally posted by andre18
What if I stay with the person I love for the rest of my life without marriage, how does marring them make a difference?
a married couple can raise a child much, much better than a non married couple can -financial problems
Or you could get your girlfriend pregnant, decide she is not a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with, and ditch her.
Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
reply to post by rjmelter
I have to ask this one, what if earth is hell? What if we're the lowest of the low, afterall everyone on earth tends to suffer. Maybe we're hell and after us is heaven
On the other i'm agnostic and i try and argue every side i can
Originally posted by DuneKnight
to be frank with you, no two people can stay with each other for their entire lives without marriage, it just doesn't happen. have u ever seen an old couple who were together like 50 years who werent married.
living with someone for 'the rest of your life' without marriage is impossible because the moment the first argument starts is the moment he/she closes the door behind him.
there is no knot that ties them together, no obligation towards each other and there is no reason to be faithful, jumping from one unmarried relationship to another becomes a tendency.
btw, people should consider getting married, you never know when that awful day comes when you might get amputated or have your face burnt or become infected; who will want you then? any of these things can turn your promiscuous life into a life of loneliness just like that.
[edit on 21-5-2008 by DuneKnight]
Originally posted by AgentStovkowski
Look at the bigger picture, it's not about the sex, and not about the marriage, it's about the children that can come from it.
Currently in this world, and pretty much since the dawn of civilization, a married couple can raise a child much, much better than a non married couple can. Non-married couples tend to run into many financial problems while attempting to raise a child, especially more than one child. Granted this is starting to not become such a big problem, because most people just leech off of the taxpayers via welfare these days.
Originally posted by AgentStovkowski
If you're going to have sex, children can come of it that IS the point of having sex, after all. Sure sex feels good, sure we have urges to do it, but look at the whole picture, mother nature just made sex feel good for we would do it, for we would reproduce. Even if you are "responsible" and use "protection", **** happens. To me, being "responsible" means getting married before having sex, or at the very least, getting married as soon as you know she's pregnant.
Originally posted by AgentStovkowski
So no, sex before marriage is not some kind of NWO conspiracy. It's just the more intelligent and responsible thing to do.
Originally posted by AgentStovkowski
Or you could get your girlfriend pregnant, decide she is not a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with, and ditch her. Of course, now you'll have to pay child support to the tune of $500+ per month for the next 18 years, for a child you'll never see again. Of course, this wouldn't have been a problem if you had waited until marriage to have sex.
Originally posted by DuneKnight
to be frank with you, no two people can stay with each other for their entire lives without marriage, it just doesn't happen. have u ever seen an old couple who were together like 50 years who werent married.
Originally posted by DuneKnight
Originally posted by andre18
What if I stay with the person I love for the rest of my life without marriage, how does marring them make a difference?
to be frank with you, no two people can stay with each other for their entire lives without marriage, it just doesn't happen. have u ever seen an old couple who were together like 50 years who werent married.
living with someone for 'the rest of your life' without marriage is impossible because the moment the first argument starts is the moment he/she closes the door behind him. there is no knot that ties them together, no obligation towards each other and there is no reason to be faithful, jumping from one unmarried relationship to another becomes a tendency.
btw, people should consider getting married, you never know when that awful day comes when you might get amputated or have your face burnt or become infected; who will want you then? any of these things can turn your promiscuous life into a life of loneliness just like that.
[edit on 21-5-2008 by DuneKnight]
Originally posted by Mad_Hatter
Not to mention that the Bible was written by man 400 year AFTER any event in the book happened under the assumption that God told him to what to write.
[edit on 5/20/2008 by Mad_Hatter]