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Originally posted by Drakiir
Self control and having multiple partners is a total contradiction you cant have both at once, I believe its 'one or none', with no exceptions.
Originally posted by Drakiir
My reference to porn stars has been taken out of context because I constantly hear people saying respect woman which I and Im sure most people do. In contrast we have porn stars and strip clubs that say the total opposite and give the appearance that woman are sex toys.
Thats the contradiction Im trying to explain, to me personally every brothel and sex club should be shut down, there is nothing good that comes of them.
Originally posted by Drakiir
I do congratulate you for not smoking, occasionally drinking, and not doing drugs. I've been lucky enough to reject these all together but I did come close to smoking but am glad I never did.
Originally posted by Drakiir
You have been with multiple partners and you did enjoy it but that sounds to me like lust talking not love. There is a massive difference between the two and when I experienced love not lust, it was like time stopped itself, like our very souls connected. It was the first tantric experience I ever had and one I wont ever turn from.
Originally posted by Drakiir
To me, sex without love is meaningless, only lust comes in that form. It sounds to me like your afraid of commitment because if you weren't you wouldn't be with multiple partners.
Originally posted by Drakiir
You don't think it needs controlling when you cant see the very fact you are with multiple woman instead of one is ok, alright if you say so.
Originally posted by Drakiir
They are promoting degradation of themselves and other women by just being in a place of that nature. Im all for admiration of the human form and am actually a designer and an illustrator but I appreciate the body for what it is not what it can give sexually.
And some people need it, so that includes you with multiple partners right?
Originally posted by Drakiir
Yes sounds exactly like a hobby doesnt it, whenever you want any time of the day, even after breakfast and one before dinner huh. I see lust is written all over you and I can judge because you are telling me the circumstances, thats what a court does.
Originally posted by Drakiir
Im 29 myself and have had 2 girlfriends in my life and I can say without doubt that it really doesn't bother me one bit. There is no need to go into details but lets just say that the girls were into the very thing you are talking about. I point blank broke up with them letting them know thats not me.
Originally posted by Drakiir
Having a girlfriend is not a necessity for me, life is more important than grabbing a girlfriend to socially fit in, which I find is the case these days. Im not applying that to you only but it is becoming more the case. I cant count how many times I have seen guys comparing their girlfriends to each others like 'showing off a trophy' its pathetic to see it and is as transparent as glass.
Originally posted by 12.21.12
Well whattever you believe or whatever you want to add is welcome. This thread wasn't really just meant for christians, virgins or anything like that. Just an open discussion about psychological warfare or sex before marriage or whatever you want to call it.
Originally posted by cosmicstorm
reply to post by JesterMan
Its a womans right to choose because its her body?????
Originally posted by Drakiir
I think there are no room for Purists in this world and I for one am glad to be one, and you may think my views are weird but that is your opinion.
Originally posted by Drakiir
I hope the partners you are with realise that if you have to have many girls, you cant commit to one, not just through marriage but a normal relationship. Despite the 2 girlfriends I mentioned being into other partners, I still dedicated myself to them without exception.
Originally posted by Drakiir
I am not twisting anything whatsoever and your the one who thinks multiple partners is fine, now thats twisted and Im not guilty of that. Enjoy your 'sex toys' because when the one for you comes along you either wont see it, or one girl wont be enough, either way you wont commit to anything.
Originally posted by Drakiir
I am not mean to girls despite what you think, I respect everyone of them and appreciate them for who they are, and since I believe in one girl and one only I think it is you who is inconsiderate, not me. I can commit, Im happy with one girl, I never complement them without meaning it, and I never ever be with multiple partners.
Originally posted by Drakiir
What you do in my view is blatent disprespect and dishonesty and is abhorrent since your in it for your own satisfaction, but hey thats just my oppinion.
By all and let the thread go back to topic
Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
I'm not inconsiderate, often the girls i'm with are only after sex themselves so it's a mutually beneficial arrangment. That is how most of the world currently works, sex before marriage is not always sordid, it is not always selfish and it is not always wrong.