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Originally posted by mlowsley
To those who even mentioned adoption. Please get an education. Adoption is more expensive and harder than most infertility treatments. Unless you have adopted in the last year, you have NO IDEA. The Hague Convention has basically made adoption agencies see potential adoptive parents as even more likely to be criminals than before. (And, yes, potential adoptive parents are treated like criminals during the "approval" process.) There are not 100s, let alone 1000s of healthy children / infants awaiting homes. And, most first time parents are are not equipped for older child adoption. The horror stories from both adoptive parents and those working in social services are very real.
Originally posted by SaviorComplex
Has your husband/boyfriend been tested as well? Often times, things are missed because culturally, we are focused on the woman carrying the child, not realizing that the father contributes to the health and development of the unborn child as well.
I would also recommend seeking psychological help. Please don't take this as condescending. My ex-wife had a difficult pregnancy with our son, and I remember the psychological toll it took on us. I can only imagine how it is for you and your partner. A professional may help you find some solace in all of this.
Originally posted by Sonya610
If you really really want another biological child and you have some cash perhaps you should consider a surrogate mother.
These days one can rent a womb in India pretty cheap (well cheap compared to invitro procedures in the U.S.) I think the whole process can be done for about $15k including the invitro, hospital, and the surrogate.
Originally posted by dunwichwitch
Maybe the universe is trying to tell you to stop trying so hard to get pregnant. These are trying times. Do you really want to bring another child into this world right at this moment? Of course, logic does not factor into instinct. I guess it's natural, but... I dunno. I've always found it puzzling about women and their almost psychotic desire to bring another life into this world at any costs.
I've also considered my poop to be the meaning of life, so umm... don't take this post too personally. I think life is psychotic, in general.
Originally posted by Lone Star Patriot
Sounds like you need to have your OB put you on progesterone as soon as you find out you're pregnant. I think that'll be you're cure. I had the same problem. The last time I was pregnant he put me on it immediatly. I have a 2 year old beautiful, smart, precious daughter now! Did I mention she is beautiful?
Originally posted by Malevolent_Aliens
There are many abductees who have reported similar incidents, not to say that is what is happening in your case but it's not impossible.
My question would be do you have any scars or marks, any out of the ordinary scars or pains? Any unusual memory or dreams occuring?
I have worked with thousands of abduction cases and many have reported repeat incidents many with similar claims or fears of losing children to returning greys. It usually can be a lifelong event!
Don't worry though please just visit our website I would suggest and take the questionaire, figure out if you have marks or any strange memories or dreams occuring?