I think there are many different angles to this problem. I have known many large people, who carry more weight than others for many reasons.
Some people very close to me all my life, some of the most loving, caring people to exist. I don't know ANYONE who aims to eat 4000grams of fat, at
the hopes of contracting diabetes.
Having lived it myself, I can also say that there is a very large emotional aspect that is being ignored. I don't think I could possibly be the only
one who was brought up by a single parent who worked their arse off just to provide, and didn't know a single thing about nutritional needs, or
couldn't much afford it regardless. I heard stories about how his family had it's problems, and 10 for a buck burgers were the normal way to feed so
many kids.
I am one that lost a LOT OF WEIGHT. I could say that I a proud to be "normal" now. But it wouldn't be the truth. I still remember how it felt,
walking down the street and having people in cars chuck glass bottles out the window at me, or yell out things that hurt, constantly.
Just the other day, I remember walking by a few scrawny teenagers, walking the other direction with head down, just not to draw attention. This
constant fear of peoples' hate never went away.
It should be considered unacceptible to physically or verbally assault someone who has never done anything to you. No matter how fat they are, since
that seems to be the only justification.
Like a couple of the others here, I am female. I lost 70+lbs excess weight in just about 2 months. By NOT eating, and downing enough beer
everyday/night to puke and pass out. The sad thing is, I don't think I should be alive after that, much less having anyone look up to me for it like
they do.
Even now, I don't know how to "crash diet" like the media tries to sell to us. I think those pills they try to sell us are fake and do not work.
But if you look at it from another angle, there are a LOT of girls who have opposite eating disorders, which stems from an intense fear of gaining
weight, and getting criticism from people like some of the uncaring bastards in this thread. No offense... I know young, beautiful, sweet girls who
are bulimic and anorexic. It hurts to see such young, intelligent girls going through this, but I'd be a hypocrit if I said I blame them for it.
I for one remember what it was like to get bashed by glass bottles, punishment only for the mistake of taking a walk down the street. And the constant
hate-fueled vulgar things yelled.
I'd rather be dead than live it again. Believe me, no one thinks it is fun or cool to carry extra weight.