An excellent conversation/debate here. I can easily understand why
some of you think children should be 'forced' to make the pledge
and/or follow the orders of a teacher. However, I cannot agree
with you, even if I do understand the way you think and feel. (Yes,
it's as much of an emotion as it's logic - to many of us).
jasonjnelson said:
It is a simple procedure.
Stand when the PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE is recited, as well as the
national anthem. You are, after all, making that pledge.
If not, (and don't use the under God reference, it can be omitted)
and you don't want to say the pledge? Get the BLEEP out, and find a
country that will hand you the same benefits and security without an
oath of allegiance.
Yeah, thought so...

Well, there are many countries that can give you the 'same benefits'
(or even more) without forcing you to make same kind of pledge. For
example here in Finland. But yes, we have obligations and duties as
well as rights - as you do. For a long time there was a mandatory
'prayer' for every morning from grade 1 to 9 on our schools. As we
have a lot of people who are not religious or are not christian,
it's not done here anymore. We have a compulsory service for all men,
but there are some religious groups who don't have to.. also we have
a 'non military service' and even military service that is done
without guns. There is a lot of disgussion going on from time to
time, what are your 'duties' as a citizen of your country and what
are your rights.
I myself think, any 'duty' is something you have to _take yourself_
and understand.. you cannot just force somebody to do as YOU WISH and
say 'hey, it's your duty as an american/finnish/italian/w'ever...' ..
it's not the way it goes. Then you're doing things because you _have
to_, not because it's your duty that you have taken and truly wish to
do. It doesn't of course mean any duty or obligation is or should be
'fun' or easy.. they can be very hard, difficult and ethically and
morally challencing, but you do them if you truly belive it's the
right thing to do. I cannot see myself following any duty if I feel
I'm doing something wrong.
For a children, you need to think, when it's about learning and
teaching - and when it's about forcing/manipulating your own ideas
to someone who has no 'rights' or ways of defending himself. We also
used to have a lot of different kind of flag seremonions and similar
stuff at school back in the days, but luckily they're all made
voluntary. YOu can say 'I do not wish to participate' and most of the
time, it's not a problem at all for the teacher.
Even most of the grown up people don't have a true chance of 'moving
out' from the country you're born, less a child can just 'get the
BLEEP out' even if she wishes to. In a way, they're 'forced' to learn
(every place/country where there id mandatory basic education), but you
should not use it as on excuse to make them think like you, feel like
you and believe(?) the same way you do.
The best thing in this thread is that we all have the RIGHT to say
what we think and feel about this issue - the whole point in here. We
can (and should) respect that, even if we don't agree with each
others. We all live a different life, in different conditions and
have a different knowledge of things. It's natural that we make
different choises and prioritize our values differently.
(Btw. I truly respect those who actually would die for _someone elses
_ right for free speach and other basic human rights. But I still can
disagree with them strongly

...)