reply to post by Anonymous ATS
Ahhh..just got off work here. Settling down to a snack while answering your post.
I am sure you have a mother, we all do. Why would you speak such filth about women?
Hmmm....??? I dont think anyone in here is my mother.
Filth about women?? I must be calling them whores or such. Do you see that in my posts or what I call four letter word terminology??
I will give you an example of filth and filthy thinking beliefs and expectations here to contrast with what you are implying.
Last weekend I was with the woman I am seeing at a cook out. Her sister and her are planning a trip to the beach in the fall. Lots of the girls are
going. They all work...earn moneys. But money is tight for my woman and she expressed the concept that she may not be able to afford her portion of
the time share. So her sister looks at me and says..."you dont mind helping her out do you??"
This woman has no clue or care what I do in the order of RISKS for my moneys. Her Religion/belief system dictates that this is what men are
for...without risk on her part. Flashdancing is the name of her game....without RISK.
My point to my woman ..was ...come fall ..not only will you be able to afford the time share but also the gas to get there and back???
Now Anonymous ATS...I call this kind of thinking on the part of her sister...FILTH...because she has no consideration for the RISKS I take to earn my
moneys. For her the purpose of a male is obviously to make life convenient and flashdance a woman through lifes hurdles. I call this kind of woman
High Maintenance. I also refer to this kind of woman as practicing the dogma of Male disposability and expendability.
Understand what I mean now when I refer to a woman attempting to substitute her concerns and values for mine??
Anonymous...subtilty is a very powerful tool on those unawares or who think their natural role in life is to run the touchdowns for others when these
others give them the play or clue and cue to run down the field for them. Does her sister think she is so subtle that no male will notice it ....like
Now..Anonymous..when I bring this kind of Religion, thinking, expectations, beliefs to light...is this filthy??
Or does this have some measure of truth to it??
I also never said that all women are doing this ..so the drama technique does not work or apply to me here.
What I have also said is that many men or males are not very bright about this kind of thing. They need to be.
This conversation is going to come up again between now and the fall. I will determine for myself whether I will let it pass as I did at the cookout
or use some Salt on her sister.
I am of the Salt of the Earth..not the sugar Anonymous. Sugar techniques only go so far. They are a luxury to me ..not a lifestyle. And they are
certainly not an entitlement. Male or Female.
Thanks for your post,
INtresting post and position ..I know men who are boastful. I dont think much of them either. You are correct ..it is obnoxious.
I also know women who try to specialize in this "Bitch" fingerprint which seems to be becoming so popular now days. Not impressed. IT to me is just
another variation of High Maintenance. It is chaos..not difficult to find out here..male and female. The rare woman out here is one who can bring a
man Peace..not just Piece. Peace and all the commitments to bring it about ..is a rare and valuable talent/asset in a woman...children or no
Men cant give birth...lol lol lol..now this is funny...pitiful too when you think of it in light of the abortion issue. I see alot of women trying to
default through on this ..men cant give birth concept. When you understand the abortion issue...this position shreds to pieces quickly. YOu dont as a
male have to let it default through unchallanged...or unquestioned. This is what I mean when I say men need more often to think things through.
I think there was more respect for women 15 years ago than today. I see that the caliber of womanhood has slipped alot in 15 years. I also think
that the caliber of manhood has slipped alot too. Probably more than women..but they are both about to make a pitfall if things continue down this
I recall Whitewave making a comment to me about males today not having the Virtues and gentlemenly manners of their fathers and grandfathers times.
I agreed with her. I still think she is correct here.
If I recall correctly Whitewave used Males verses Men as here manner of cataloging this phenomonon. I think she is pretty much correct here too.
Oh...Snowflake...here..from one of your earlier posts.
Well no woman wants to start a family with a slutty man either. There are probably, if not more slutty men than there are women.
Lesson in thinking guys...try thinking some time ..not sports conditioning.
If men are slutty here...with whom are they being slutty?? There is more to such a statement than meets the eye. You guys need to train yourself to
spot this..not sit there with your tails between your legs peeing all over yourself. Sorry for the crudity here but you guys deserve it.
[edit on 23-5-2008 by orangetom1999]