posted on May, 8 2008 @ 04:06 PM
reply to post by Truth Behind Lies
First off,I think the best move you have made is putting it down in words.
Secondly,you have chosen an ideal location to place those words,as ATS/BTS can get very heated but still manage to keep a degree of control due to
Maybe that is the key word.'moderation'.If you feel unable to moderate your temper,is it possible to get council to help you express your feelings
along with your partner whilst moderating the situation?
You have to find the root of your anger,this can mean digging up past memories which may not be comfortable or easy to deal with though.
Is it loss?abuse?betrayal?..
It's like trying to find a lost item..retracing your steps till you find where you were last in possession of it.. In your case,your control.
As an ex-VERY angry young man I can relate..The anger is still there sometimes but the control has been working for 20yrs now.