reply to post by Karlhungis
...er... I'm not going to go into my dating history on here, but I do know what you mean. There are certain women looking for a novelty boyfriend.
It's just another status thing, like finding a guy with a sports car, or a full time job (if you're from my home town). I found women of that
variety pretty boring to be around, frankly. Once I learned more Japanese, I found I could actually connect with regular people more (go figure). If
you don't speak the language, then yes, you will be a novelty. I think that goes just about anywhere, though.
Oh, and for the other question, I'm Caucasian. Blondish hair, where it still exists, with blue eyes. I'm the only one within about 50km of where I
am, I think. I stick out a bit, but after I'd been here for a year or so, people were a lot more open and welcoming in general - because I stay.